losing the plot........

kronas · 29-11-2003, 01:09

ok first off i apologise to the mods it may seem an odd post/thread feel free to delete this.......

over the past month or so (maybe a bit longer) i have noticed a change in my attitude mainly my actions offline as well as online i have come up against something which i cant put my finger on.............

looking back at my posts prior to this problem i was very 'chatty' in threads whilst also sticking to the more serious factual debate such as religion starting up some interesting threads sticking to fact as well as the 'ice breaking' comments

now it seems all (or most) posts are off topic a comment here and there losing the ability to think things through correctly a loss of concentration an inability to understand and comment on news items take information in using the vocabulary that i have within myself as well as being really quiet offline which is me anyway but not that much

and not reacting to things i normally would such as someone commenting ona avril that seems to have a 'numb' affect on me

oh yeh and not to mention the huge amount of typos in spelling and sentence construction

im sorry to put ths on here but i have no one else to communcate with me that would understand possibly

th'engineer · 29-11-2003, 07:23

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i have come up against something which i cant put my finger on.............

Now your not talking about avril again are you

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commenting ona avril that seems to have a 'numb' affect on me

You might have gone off avril did this start after the manc meet

it could not be feelings to others

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im sorry to put ths on here but i have no one else to communcate with me that would understand possibly

Think you need another night out with NEIL and the team

Neil · 29-11-2003, 08:54

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Now your not talking about avril again are you

You might have gone off avril did this start after the manc meet

[/size] it could not be feelings to others

Think you need another night out with NEIL and the team

Good idea.....

29-11-2003, 09:30

Hi Kronas

First impression is that you are thinking more about what you do, rather than just doing it - and that is part of getting older & wiser.

At the Manc meeting you came across as a really nice guy & I don't think that has changed - maybe th'eng & Neil are right, we need to all get together again & encourage you to 'let your hair down' a bit.

kronas · 29-11-2003, 14:02

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Hi Kronas

First impression is that you are thinking more about what you do, rather than just doing it - and that is part of getting older & wiser.

im in a world of confusion right now

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At the Manc meeting you came across as a really nice guy & I don't think that has changed - maybe th'eng & Neil are right, we need to all get together again & encourage you to 'let your hair down' a bit.

maybe i do need to get out more

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Now your not talking about avril again are you

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no im serious

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it could not be feelings to others

ofcourse not i like some of you on here that i met at the meet i think

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You might have gone off avril did this start after the manc meet

no i have not gone off her........

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Think you need another night out with NEIL and the team

that could do the trick

Ramrod · 29-11-2003, 14:07

Kronas have you had any other changes that you've noticed?
Headaches? Visual problems? Change in appetite? I've forgotten, how old are you?

kronas · 29-11-2003, 14:11

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Kronas have you had any other changes that you've noticed?
Headaches? Visual problems? Change in appetite? I've forgotten, how old are you?

ive increased my food intake as you may remember i had eating problems

Ramrod · 29-11-2003, 14:18

Any other changes? In personality or health.

....btw...how long ago did you increase your food intake and do you eat junk or healthy?

**Maggy** · 29-11-2003, 14:34

Hi kronas.

It could just be that the winter is arriving.Many folk get depressed in the winter(I'm one of them) and in fact there is a recognized sunshine deficiency condition referred to as SAD syndrome.However I don't think you have that.People suffering frrom this might well feel suicidal and have all sorts of problems that indicate a serious condition.

What I think you may have is what many people go through from time to time.It's a sort of bored samo,samo feeling that you are in a rut,going nowhere and life has lost it's gloss.It won't last long and eventually it will disappear when something tickles your interest again.

If it does go on it might be time to evaluate if you have depression or that you need to make some life changes.For some this may be a new job or a rethink about a relationship,possibly taking a stab at some training or even continuing with further education.

Hope this helps.

Incog.

kronas · 29-11-2003, 15:17

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Hi kronas.

It could just be that the winter is arriving.Many folk get depressed in the winter(I'm one of them) and in fact there is a recognized sunshine deficiency condition referred to as SAD syndrome.However I don't think you have that.People suffering frrom this might well feel suicidal and have all sorts of problems that indicate a serious condition.

i dont think its that as im happy to stay inside or go out it doesent bother me

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What I think you may have is what many people go through from time to time.It's a sort of bored samo,samo feeling that you are in a rut,going nowhere and life has lost it's gloss.It won't last long and eventually it will disappear when something tickles your interest again.

im not thinking like that

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If it does go on it might be time to evaluate if you have depression or that you need to make some life changes.For some this may be a new job or a rethink about a relationship,possibly taking a stab at some training or even continuing with further education.

Hope this helps.

Incog.

i was thinking about a job actually.........

thanks for the hug

kronas · 29-11-2003, 15:18

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Any other changes? In personality or health.

yes to personality i dont seem as willing to talk to people oh and staying in one place is a problem even if im just there for 5 mins

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....btw...how long ago did you increase your food intake and do you eat junk or healthy?

i would say about 2 months ago instead of lasting between 2-5 days without eating its now eating atleast once perhaps twice a day

most of it is unhealthy food really i was looking to maybe change that........

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Kronas,

The weather is terrible, you're stuck inside. As you have said before, you are somewhat alienated from other members of your faith.

thats not relevant i get on well with anyone so long as they dont intrude on me in the ways i have discussed before........

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Perhaps your life at present isn't as good as you feel that it should be BUT

of course i want to chnage my life slightly hopefully i can do that soon

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You are young, You are getting an education. Things will improve. The weather will eventually improve and with it your appetite for life.

i dont think its weather related i still get out more then i ever used to nowadays

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Come on, Kronas, you have made some good friends on the forum. Life will get better (except for April Lasagne). Please don't let depression take over. Try to think positive. If necessary look for a NEW HOBBY or perhaps a new goal in life. You can do it if you really try. Best Wishes.

and thanks to the freinds who have talked to me on msn as well as trying to help me on here

29-11-2003, 16:16

Kronie

Did u start going to college in September, soimetimes that can take a bit of getting use to because it can be a big change in life

Ramrod · 29-11-2003, 16:38

Kronas, it could be that you need to finally start eating well (and more often) in order to improve your mood. If you are malnourished it will have an affect on your personality. Or it could just be (as others have suggested) that it's just a depressing time of year.

Of course it could also be something else in your life thats affecting your mood that none of us here know about...

paulyoung666 · 29-11-2003, 16:50

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Kronas, it could be that you need to finally start eating well (and more often) in order to improve your mood. If you are malnourished it will have an affect on your personality. Or it could just be (as others have suggested) that it's just a depressing time of year.

Of course it could also be something else in your life thats affecting your mood that none of us here know about...

mind you i reckon you are right about eating well , i try as much as i can to eat proper meals , i feel much better than when i eat crap

Ramrod · 29-11-2003, 16:56

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article...910938,00.html
Probably not strictly applicable to you Kronas but it emphasises the importance of eating well.