21-08-2003, 18:35
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underage sex
This makes very interesting reading.
Although we don't know all the facts in this case, would it be fair to say that had the situation been a 33 year old man having sex with a 14 year girl, would the defence have the nerve to say "The girl was the instigator"?
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21-08-2003, 18:39
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thats a bit sickening for me but whats this about her suffering from depression surely she knew what she was doing likewise the boy 
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21-08-2003, 18:40
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I can see this getting messy.
The boy may have been the instigator but as we keep hearing when its a male abusing a young female, Under the age of 16 you have no legal right to say yes, your consent counts for nothing. Its still statutory rape.
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21-08-2003, 18:41
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Actually it's statutory rape when the victim is under 13.
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21-08-2003, 18:42
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This is just ridiculous. A court would never except a fourteen year old girl being the instigator. 'She is young, she doesn't know any better, the responsibility lies with the adult to walk away etc'. Apparently 14 year old boys do know better?
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21-08-2003, 18:45
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Had the 14 year old lied about his age and she had reasonable ground to think he was over 16 then it might be easier to see it from her point of view but......it doesn't look like it happened that way.
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21-08-2003, 18:47
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you know I'm beginning to think that because he's male he will be the envy of all his mates. Possibly the first to have sex. It still doesnt make any difference whether the abused was male or female the courts should not allow for one second the defence to say this youngster instigated the crime.
If it is found that he did instigate it, then its going to cause lots of problems when the CPS try and get the men who have sex with 14 year old girls, they will be able to claim she instigated it and this case was the "test" case.
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21-08-2003, 19:53
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It's disgusting for any adult of any sex to abuse a child.
There is no defence.Adults are supposed to protect the young and vunerable,not take advantage.Depression is NO excuse at all 
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21-08-2003, 20:06
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Speaking as a man, I would have been very happy to have found myself having sex at the age of 14. Especially with an experienced partner. I wouldn't look back on the memory and think something like 'that bitch abused me'. I would probably treasure the memory. 
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21-08-2003, 20:16
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Ok in a way I agree with you RamRod but if you say that to people openly you will be flamed but it annoys me that when ever you hear about rape its always the man abuses a woman it can be other way about sometimes but its never documented
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21-08-2003, 20:19
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Originally posted by Mark15
Ok in a way I agree with you RamRod but if you say that to people openly you will be flamed but it annoys me that when ever you hear about rape its always the man abuses a woman it can be other way about sometimes but its never documented
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Its true, I think that would be because men would be frightend to admit that they were abused by a woman.
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21-08-2003, 20:24
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Quote:
Originally posted by Ramrod
Speaking as a man, I would have been very happy to have found myself having sex at the age of 14. Especially with an experienced partner. I wouldn't look back on the memory and think something like 'that bitch abused me'. I would probably treasure the memory.
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There is probably some truth in that, Ramrod, but not for all 14 year old boys, it's been a while since I was 14, but I would have run a mile - 15 was different  - but that was me.
Point is, the law is there to protect children & shouldn't be applied any differently, whether it be man on girl or woman on boy.
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21-08-2003, 20:27
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Will she go on the paedophile register? I suppose she will
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21-08-2003, 20:56
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Quote:
Originally posted by Ramrod
Speaking as a man, I would have been very happy to have found myself having sex at the age of 14. Especially with an experienced partner. I wouldn't look back on the memory and think something like 'that bitch abused me'. I would probably treasure the memory.
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She was a bit of a minger though 
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21-08-2003, 21:31
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He is just a kid why didn't she walk away??
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