Just use the BT SMTP servers to send the NTLWORLD emails.. As Rob says ISP's don;t normally allow their SMTP servers to be used by anyone not on thier connection (though some do allow this with a username/password..)
Check the BT site for RELAYING help
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Link you might find helpful
http://btyahoo.com/smtpnonbt