Hi
at a bit of a dead end, if I had any hair left I'd have pulled it all out

Anyway, I can't seem to upload anything e.g. uploads to flickr stall at 99%, and attachments to gmail fail. I've tried Yousending stuff and that fails too. OK. I can browse the internet fine. I've tried connecting directly to my cable modem (ambit 256) and the same happens.
Doing a pathping shows that all packets are being dropped at the UBR (hop '2') - took me a while to figure this out (someone tell me if I'm wrong? I think 10.* is the 'me' facing side of the ubr?). The question is, is this important? Is there something wrong with my modem or with the UBR, or am I on the wrong track? I just can't get through to technical support, I don't have a landline with virgin, and I can't afford to sit in a queue for an hour... (sorry for the moans people). And if this isn't the issue, what is? I'm in Saltburn, Teesside if that helps. And thanks for anyone who replys in advance.