Crush at work - Page 9

lucy7 · 09-04-2009, 14:35

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Originally Posted by joglynne

OK here's my tuppennys' worth. I like the first paragraph and even if she shows it to anyone you just come over as a nice guy. I wouldn't use the last two paragraphs though as they are a bit over the top at this stage and mentioning staying friends if she doesn't want to go out with you just comes over defeatist.

Just add something like..

"I enjoy going out for a meal (pictures/whatever) and wondered if you would like to come with me."

Give her your phone number and ask her to ring you with her answer.

A near on perfect answer!

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Originally Posted by Gary L

I've used your letter with a few changes made, and sent it on to see if the reaction is a good or bad one.
I'll let you know what the women think

Do you get any work done Gary, working from home???

Whoops where did i go wrong with that???? Wheres the work from home bit gone?

Gary L · 09-04-2009, 14:42

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Originally Posted by lucy7

Do you get any work done Gary, working from home???

Not as much as I should lately. I could do with dual monitors though

Halcyon · 09-04-2009, 14:53

I'm surprised you get any work done at all.
Gary L, Your'e Fired!

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Done, Email has been sent. It can only go down hill from here.

joglynne · 09-04-2009, 15:03

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Originally Posted by Halcyon

I'm surprised you get any work done at all.
Gary L, Your'e Fired!

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Done, Email has been sent. It can only go down hill from here.

Stop being so defeatist. You have come a long way in the last few months but you have to start having more faith in yourself.

Halcyon · 09-04-2009, 15:27

With the amount of crappiness and mess ups recently I've looked at relationships at only going pair shaped.
It's like I finally try and get over the mess up that was my last relationship where I hang on for two years trying to make it work but it didnt go anywhere and just made things so depressing that I couldnt sleep.

Meeting this new girl gave me hope of a new start.

I appreciate your kind words Jo and know that I should be more positive. I guess I need to remember that she did say yes when I asked her so that means something. Whether now she backs out again is another thing entirely.
Atleast she now knows in that e-mail that I like her.

I'll try to be more optimistic.

Crikey, this thread is getting long!

superbiatch · 09-04-2009, 15:30

Good luck halycon, the ladies on here have done you proud and we'll all be expecting an update as soon as received. Don't worry if its not today, us girlies like to think we're playing hard to get

@ Gary L, i understand you are developing a fixation with me, but the feeling is not mutual

(thats the way you don't want your lady friend to reply halycon)

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Caspar · 09-04-2009, 15:31

Is there any reason why you don't have her mobile? after months of 'flirting' and everyone knows you want to bang her, I would have thought she'd have given it to you.

Maybe there's a reason she hasn't given it you.

I wish you luck mate, but work relationships can be very dodgy and soul destroying, from what I've seen. I guarantee that all her friends will read your email.

One word of advice, is that if you do start conversing via email and then onto the dreaded SMS, then don't reply straightaway - show some control and leave it hours before replying, and for your own piece of mind don't reply to stuff before you goto bed. Leave it until morning.

And whatever you do don't wreck your job over a bird, try to seperate it as much as you can, considering, always keep and eye on your mortage/rent/beer/money/car payments/whatever. - pussy comes second.

superbiatch · 09-04-2009, 15:33

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Originally Posted by Caspar

...- pussy comes second.

Nice!!

Gary L · 09-04-2009, 15:40

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Originally Posted by superbiatch

@ Gary L, i understand you are developing a fixation with me, but the feeling is not mutual

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(thats the way you don't want your lady friend to reply halycon)

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She's playing hard to get, halycon

lucy7 · 09-04-2009, 15:41

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Originally Posted by Caspar

Is there any reason why you don't have her mobile? after months of 'flirting' and everyone knows you want to bang her, I would have thought she'd have given it to you.

Maybe there's a reason she hasn't given it you.

I wish you luck mate, but work relationships can be very dodgy and soul destroying, from what I've seen. I guarantee that all her friends will read your email.

One word of advice, is that if you do start conversing via email and then onto the dreaded SMS, then don't reply straightaway - show some control and leave it hours before replying, and for your own piece of mind don't reply to stuff before you goto bed. Leave it until morning.

And whatever you do don't wreck your job over a bird, try to seperate it as much as you can, considering, always keep and eye on your mortage/rent/beer/money/car payments/whatever. - pussy comes second.

Speechless.........

Halcyon · 09-04-2009, 15:42

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Originally Posted by superbiatch

Good luck halycon, the ladies on here have done you proud and we'll all be expecting an update as soon as received. Don't worry if its not today, us girlies like to think we're playing hard to get

Definately a big

to the ladies of the forum.
We need more people like you on here.
Will definately give some updates soon hopefully. Let's hope theyare good ones.

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Originally Posted by Caspar

Is there any reason why you don't have her mobile? after months of 'flirting' and everyone knows you want to bang her, I would have thought she'd have given it to you.

I guess I see her everyday so havent really asked for it. She is on my facebook anyway.
Yes everyone knows I want to be with her but when you are at work it's not easy to talk, especially where I work. So when we all go out such as last week it made it a little easier.

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Originally Posted by Caspar

pussy comes second.

You and your talk of 'banging' can't really get you very far.

superbiatch · 09-04-2009, 15:43

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Originally Posted by Gary L

She's playing hard to get, halycon

Don't even go there! I've had this problem recently with the postie who picks up the franked mail from my office. After him asking me out I told him straight I wasn't interested, he took no notice. They i said had a BF and had just been on holiday with him, still no notice. If I tried the 'I'm a lesbian' stance I'm sure he'd just get off on it

. There's only one thing left - i'm becoming a nun!

**Hugh** · 09-04-2009, 15:45

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Originally Posted by superbiatch

Don't even go there! I've had this problem recently with the postie who picks up the franked mail from my office. After him asking me out I told him straight I wasn't interested, he took no notice. They i said had a BF and had just been on holiday with him, still no notice. If I tried the 'I'm a lesbian' stance I'm sure he'd just get off on it

. There's only one thing left - i'm becoming a nun!

Don't go there, please - how many will "get off" on a lesbian nun fantasy?

Gary L · 09-04-2009, 15:51

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Originally Posted by foreverwar

Don't go there, please - how many will "get off" on a lesbian nun fantasy?

lucy7 · 09-04-2009, 15:53

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Originally Posted by foreverwar

Don't go there, please - how many will "get off" on a lesbian nun fantasy?

Yea Biatch, never, never tell a guy you are a lesbian, unless you are the butch type

His mind will go into overdrive!!