Crush at work - Page 7

moaningmags · 08-04-2009, 23:43

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Originally Posted by Gary L

I've stopped thinking about Superbiatch already, so it is possible

Aaah but you have the attention span of a goldfish

**Hugh** · 09-04-2009, 08:15

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Originally Posted by moaningmags

Aaah but you have the attention span of a goldfish

That has Alzheimers, ADHD, and hasn't renewed its Ritalin prescription..

Caspar · 09-04-2009, 09:05

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Originally Posted by Halcyon

You mean me going down the local garage tonight to buy some nails, a can of petrol and deleting her photos off her Pc and replacing them with LOL Cat pics was a bad idea ?

Nope, not going for that approach just as yet, or possibly ever.

I'm going to try and chill. I did mention originally to her "some time in the holidays" so didnt make it clear but hoped it would be this week as I think she is off to visit her sister next week.
We'l see how it goes. Love is strange. You can't sto thinking about the person, however hard you try.

Time to chill out, and get some sleep I think.

Oh no people we have a bleeder! .... he used the LOVE word! I think you're still in the attraction stage...or possible even stalking stage!

I recommend going out on the town and getting laid, quick! (you know my advice, use a condom! freaking **** out there

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Halcyon · 09-04-2009, 09:40

LOL It's OK, I'm not that desperate.

The word LOVE was to describe the whole thing. I know it isnt love as yet. At the moment it is attraction and that feeling where you just want to be with that person because they make you feel so happy.

Time to just wait and see where things go.

superbiatch · 09-04-2009, 10:16

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Originally Posted by Halcyon

LOL It's OK, I'm not that desperate.

The word LOVE was to describe the whole thing. I know it isnt love as yet. At the moment it is attraction and that feeling where you just want to be with that person because they make you feel so happy.

Time to just wait and see where things go.

And after attraction comes LUST - my fave bit

Gary L · 09-04-2009, 10:30

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Originally Posted by Halcyon

LOL It's OK, I'm not that desperate.

The word LOVE was to describe the whole thing. I know it isnt love as yet. At the moment it is attraction and that feeling where you just want to be with that person because they make you feel so happy.

It's called lust

Oh, someone already said it

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Originally Posted by superbiatch

And after attraction comes LUST - my fave bit

Then you start taking it all for granted, and get fed up of the sight of each other eventually

Julian · 09-04-2009, 10:33

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Originally Posted by superbiatch

And after attraction comes LUST - my fave bit

You missed out the bit involving the photocopier.

superbiatch · 09-04-2009, 10:35

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Originally Posted by Gary L

Then you start taking it all for granted, and get fed up of the sight of each other eventually

To me lust is all about looking forward to seeing each other, waiting for the phone to ring, doing outrageous/spontaneous stuff together and having a great time with lots of sÂ£x! Unfortunately its the bit that follows I struggle with beginning with L

Mr Gary L - you are such a cynic! Let your hair down and have some fun

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Originally Posted by Julian

You missed out the bit involving the photocopier.

Read my next post - outrageous and spontaneous easily cover this an a multitude of other things

Gary L · 09-04-2009, 10:42

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Originally Posted by superbiatch

To me lust is all about looking forward to seeing each other, waiting for the phone to ring, doing outrageous/spontaneous stuff together and having a great time with lots of sÂ£x! Unfortunately its the bit that follows I struggle with beginning with L

Mr Gary L - you are such a cynic! Let your hair down and have some fun

Ok, when can we start?
how far through the lust one till the love stage comes, are you?

superbiatch · 09-04-2009, 10:49

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Originally Posted by Gary L

Ok, when can we start?
how far through the lust one till the love stage comes, are you?

Unfortunately I don't play the game

Gary L · 09-04-2009, 10:55

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Originally Posted by superbiatch

Unfortunately I don't play the game

You know the saying.
you'll miss what you never had

superbiatch · 09-04-2009, 10:57

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Originally Posted by Gary L

You know the saying.
you'll miss what you never had

I've had it, but my life has taken a confusing turn in these last few years, if you read back a few pages - you'll see why.

Sorry for taking a bit off topic Halycon - any news today?

Halcyon · 09-04-2009, 11:12

Yes - The news is she can't make it this Friday. She mailed me.

Which means I have been looking forward to this and now as everything else in my life I get my hopes up for nothing.

Right now I'm emailing her and just going to be straight with it, tell her my feelings and that's it.
Then she will know and it's up to her.

I've had it with women! Complete nutters!

[Apart from the CF women ofcourse, I like you all]

joglynne · 09-04-2009, 11:17

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Originally Posted by Halcyon

Yes - The news is she can't make it this Friday. She mailed me.

Which means I have been looking forward to this and now as everything else in my life I get my hopes up for nothing.

Right now I'm emailing her and just going to be straight with it, tell her my feelings and that's it.
Then she will know and it's up to her.

I've had it with women! Complete nutters!

[Apart from the CF women ofcourse, I like you all)

Nice save there Halcyon.

Don't give up on her yet, she may be feeling just as confused as you do. It's not easy having an office relationship and she may just be wary of actually taking the first step.

Halcyon · 09-04-2009, 11:22

Well I don't like being in this situation but the Email I'm going to send basically gives her the option to reply back and say: "I only want to be friends", or "Actually Yes, I'd still like to meet up and see where things go".