Gay men and children

[Tazfan]

LOL @ Russ!

U still willin 2 shake my hand if I come to your church?

[Russ]

Depends on where that hand has been

Come to my church, I'll even offer you a chair

[greencreeper]

Originally Posted by Tazfan

So Im not the only gay guy on here then?

Depends on how you define "gay" Fair few straight queens on this forum I'm gay <waves rainbow flag> as is dellwear. So that's three now. We're taking over

[Russ]

Originally Posted by greencreeper

Fair few straight queens on this forum

Now you just KNOW you've got to name names!

[greencreeper]

Originally Posted by Russ D

Now you just KNOW you've got to name names!

Just keep an eye out for bitchy behaviour

[Stuart]

Originally Posted by Graham

So I decide to have an evening off from forums and play some Shogun: Total War, and when I come back, I find I've missed a thread like this

Some comments:

<snip but agree with all>

Graham, I do agree with all of what you said. I also like the point about education.

I do think parents should take some responsibility with educating their kids, and should not allow their kids on the 'Net unsupervised (not only because of the possibility of being groomed, but mainly because of the content of some of the sites on the web).

As for whether I would have a problem with my child (assuming I had one) talking to an older adult on MSN, well, as long as that is supervised, I don't think I would have a problem.

[Tazfan]

Originally Posted by greencreeper

Depends on how you define "gay" Fair few straight queens on this forum I'm gay <waves rainbow flag> as is dellwear. So that's three now. We're taking over

Im waving the same flag as you buddy! (Hmm, thats a good idea for an emoticon actually!)

ok, this may be a stupid question, but what is a "straight queen"

[greencreeper]

Originally Posted by Paul M

ok, this may be a stupid question, but what is a "straight queen"

You must have either encountered or seen on TV a really camp gay guy who's very bitchy - lots of snide, cutting remarks? Well a straight queen is exactly the same - camp and bitchy but straight. Well at least that's what it means to me.

Once upon a time you could spot a gay bloke because he did something with his hair other than comb it. The raise of the "new man" and metrosexuality has made it a tough task. The lines are blurring

[etccarmageddon]

Originally Posted by Escapee

...Perverts should be castrated!

not all perverts can be castrated.

Originally Posted by etccarmageddon

not all perverts can be castrated.

And they would find a way around it.Peadophiles aren't necesarily into sex,they are in to power over the weak and vunerable.

[orangebird]

Originally Posted by dr wadd

It's hardly as though being a single guy in your late 30s is a particularly uncommon thing though. Frankly, if she can come out with wonderful "logic" such as that you are probably best out of it. I find her justification that it is because you aren`t religious to be rather ironic, did you point her in the direction of any news articles concerning Catholic priests in American?

I think it's a little scary that someone with that frame of mind actually has children.....

[Escapee]

Originally Posted by dr wadd

It's hardly as though being a single guy in your late 30s is a particularly uncommon thing though. Frankly, if she can come out with wonderful "logic" such as that you are probably best out of it. I find her justification that it is because you aren`t religious to be rather ironic, did you point her in the direction of any news articles concerning Catholic priests in American?

I did better than simply pointing it out about priests, around that time there was a local lay preacher who was in court for interfering with young children under his supervision. He went to court and got sent to prison, it really annoyed her because she only considered bad things were done by those who didn't go to church, she even said the newspaper story was a fabrication! The lay preacher in question came in my local pub a few times, I told her this but she would not believe any of it.

I never got to the bottom of why she came out with all that rubbish about me, I just wish I knew why. If someone had said something to make her think that I would want to know who it was.

I think there were many reasons, she wanted rid because her husband was coming to this country. (she said she was divorced) and I am fairly shure she was abused herself, but thats just my feelings form a few strange things she did and said.

She has apparently gone to Egypt or somewhere like that now on an all expenses paid church trip, it seems their church spend money on a select few to go and represent them around the world. I could never see her giving up the churc it was far too financially appealing to her.

[Escapee]

Originally Posted by orangebird

I think it's a little scary that someone with that frame of mind actually has children.....

Sorry to post again.

It really hit me for six when she said those things, and my friends actually laughed and said she must be mad.

As I mentioned in the other thread, I think she was mentally disturbed. When we broke up, she even said if her and her children were killed, I would be the first suspect.

I never made any threats of that sort, I was very emotional at the time and just didn't want things to split up. It took me a long time to realise but I now know she is a bit twisted. I bumped into her in Cardiff about 2 months ago and she had tears in her eyes and was apologising, I was with my new girlfriend who is very pretty IMO and she wispered in my ear "You can do better than her"

That just about sums her up I guess, bitter and twisted. I treid to understand her but even sane women are hard work.

[Stuart]

Originally Posted by Escapee

I did better than simply pointing it out about priests, around that time there was a local lay preacher who was in court for interfering with young children under his supervision. He went to court and got sent to prison, it really annoyed her because she only considered bad things were done by those who didn't go to church, she even said the newspaper story was a fabrication! The lay preacher in question came in my local pub a few times, I told her this but she would not believe any of it.

I never got to the bottom of why she came out with all that rubbish about me, I just wish I knew why. If someone had said something to make her think that I would want to know who it was.

I think there were many reasons, she wanted rid because her husband was coming to this country. (she said she was divorced) and I am fairly shure she was abused herself, but thats just my feelings form a few strange things she did and said.

She has apparently gone to Egypt or somewhere like that now on an all expenses paid church trip, it seems their church spend money on a select few to go and represent them around the world. I could never see her giving up the churc it was far too financially appealing to her.

It sounds like she was (sorry to put this so bluntly) mad, or at least had some sort of mental disorder.

The nearest I have experienced to this is that one of my ex's used to leave her car in places were she knew I would notice it. That didn't bother me the first couple of times it happened, but then I started a new job (which I hadn't told her about) and she started to leave the car in certain places on my way to work.

This is despite the fact that she no longer lived in the area, and that the job I started was shift work, so there was no way she should have known when I was passing..

BTW, I knew it was her car. I knew the number plate. It also happened too often for it to be a coincidence (especially as she didn't have any friends or family living along the road I walked up to get to work, so was unlikely to be visiting anyone).