Gary, are you suggesting that I am pinnochio?
Seriously, I am looking for advice, not a suggestion that I am a liar. As I have been reading the board regularly, it seems as though people come on here and get good advice, which is why I asked.
As I have already stated, if you want to know anything specific, just ask. The reason that I have not detailed the problem in full, is that I am aware that there are younger members of the board who may not be fully aware of certain things that happen in life and I do not want to come across as:
a) condoning or enndorsing what I did
b) looking as though I am bragging
Seriously, I am very grateful for the advice. It has been very helpful and informative - as I said previously, this forum is a fountain of knowledge!