underage sex

[Rabbit]

I think that when you are young then you find the attentions of the opposite sex very nice and welcoming indeed. I remember when I was at school and there was a dinner lady that paid special interest in me. I loved her with all my heart and if it hadn't been that she moved house we may have become lovers. I was 14 at the time and had never had any ladies in my life as my mum dies when I was only little and so I have been brought up by my Dad and my Grandad. There are no living females in our family that live in this country so I have only ever had male attention and that is not exactly expressive towards you when it comes to hugs and things is it? I mean when your Dad is leaving you for the first time at University he just shakes your hand and says 'See you son' and that's it. Very formal and business like. So I have to wonder about the upbringing and the attention that this young lad has had in his life from females. This could be the key to it all.

[Russ]

Originally posted by cjll3
This is a totally different situation to say a care worker forcing himself on a child. Yes she's wrong for not rejecting his attentions, but he is not entirely without blame.

Yep Lord Nik you were right, double standards....

Originally posted by cjll3
[Snippity snip].......
You try suggesting to Kink, Debsy or Incog that you only talk to them because you want to screw them and see what kind of reaction you get .... but stand well back! .....

[Snippity snipped]

Since i have been mentioned... thought i'd contribute, although some of the posts in this thread had me reeling and i opted to stay out of it....

I'd much prefer a man to be honest.... then i can either say yes or no. It saves us both a lot of time and the man in question, saves his breath too I'd only find the lying in order to get a 'screw' as you put it, offensive and patronising and it would ensure a negative response... or if i found out too late.... i'd have to track him down and find a way to repay his abuse of trust :p

Can't speak for the other women mentioned, but that's my repsonse... i know it's but honesty works for me.

[Ramrod]

Originally posted by kink
Since i have been mentioned... thought i'd contribute, although some of the posts in this thread had me reeling and i opted to stay out of it....

I'd much prefer a man to be honest.... then i can either say yes or no. It saves us both a lot of time and the man in question, saves his breath too I'd only find the lying in order to get a 'screw' as you put it, offensive and patronising and it would ensure a negative response... or if i found out too late.... i'd have to track him down and find a way to repay his abuse of trust :p

but Kink, men only approach women that they fancy. After that comes the intellectual attraction. The initial attraction has a lot to do with sex.
I believe it's often the opposit case with women.....at least according to my wife.

Originally posted by Ramrod
but Kink, men only approach women that they fancy. After that comes the intellectual attraction. The initial attraction has a lot to do with sex.
I believe it's often the opposit case with women.....at least according to my wife.

Yes, Ramrod What i'm saying is that if a man only wants to sleep with me.. never to be seen again after that moment .... i'd like to know in advance so that i can agree to it or not. I was only replying to the situation where a screw was to be the only outcome.. it wasn't a part of the getting to know you process. I was referring to being lied to by someone just to have sex.... no more, no less..... never to be heard of again.... a telephone number that doesn't exist given at the end of the night.... that sort of thing
I'm not naive, if anything i'm jaded. And women are not so different to men... well not any more. In looking for a possible partner then of course personality and intelligence is part of the attraction.... but i'm 36, single... and sometimes sexual physical attraction is all that's needed
Having said that.... the physical attraction is affected..... for me.... by the personality of the man, even on first meeting. If he has an inane laugh which resembles a hyena... then i think the idea of an early night is not on Maybe that's where the difference it... maybe you're saying that men, generally of course, would not be so bothered by that for a quickie.
Start another thread... and we can discuss it

May have been too honest there.... lol but just so you know, that was NOT a personal advert

[Ramrod]

Originally posted by kink
[B]Yes, Ramrod What i'm saying is that if a man only wants to sleep with me.. never to be seen again after that moment .... i'd like to know in advance so that i can agree to it or not. I was only replying to the situation where a screw was to be the only outcome.. it wasn't a part of the getting to know you process. I was referring to being lied to by someone just to have sex.... no more, no less..... never to be heard of again.... a telephone number that doesn't exist given at the end of the night.... that sort of thing

I agree, thats not on.

Having said that.... the physical attraction is affected..... for me.... by the personality of the man, even on first meeting. If he has an inane laugh which resembles a hyena... then i think the idea of an early night is not on

Pretty much the same for men (unless their incredibly desperate)