Crush at work - Page 10

Gary L · 09-04-2009, 15:58

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Originally Posted by lucy7

Yea Biatch, never, never tell a guy you are a lesbian, unless you are the butch type

His mind will go into overdrive!!

That is true. shave your head Superbiatch!

Halcyon · 09-04-2009, 16:03

biatch, Tell him you are a shemale. Now that WILL put him off most likely.

But back to crushes, I wonder why some women, eg. the one I like who knows I like her don't just come out with it and say "No go. It's never going to happen" instead of enjoying the attnetion.
Is it just to make the chase more fun, do girls like to play with guys minds? I think so.
Let's hope that some are genuine and not crazy.

Raistlin · 09-04-2009, 16:04

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Originally Posted by Halcyon

biatch, Tell him you are a shemale. Now that WILL put him off most likely.

Wouldn't bet on it

Gary L · 09-04-2009, 16:06

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Originally Posted by Rob M

Wouldn't bet on it

You're the exception then

superbiatch · 09-04-2009, 16:10

How about i tell him that I'm not really into bald heads (not shaven but completely bald) or guys wearing school shorts for work, sitting in a local pub with real ales available and the most unappealing bit to me - he's in his 50's!!!

Now that may make me a bitch, but thats me and he might just get the message

(but i'm not that heartless

). The hard bit is he's deaf so communication is strained to say the least, but he's just not my type at all!

Anyway, enough about my little issue and back to halycon - its his thread

lucy7 · 09-04-2009, 16:12

Yes, some girls will play with your mind, but if you think she is, is she one you should be seeking?
Us ladies all like a bit of attention, we would not be normal if we did not, but to screw with a guys head is just not on.

To be frank with you, I think she is not interested in going on a date with you, if she was, she would of taken you up on your offer and met up with you, or arranged another date if the date you suggested was not suitable for her.

I would move on.
Good things happen when you do not actively seek them!!

Raistlin · 09-04-2009, 16:14

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Originally Posted by Gary L

You're the exception then

Sorry, misread the thread - thought it was being suggested that superbiatch telling you she was a shemale would put you off the chase

Peter_ · 09-04-2009, 16:16

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Originally Posted by superbiatch

There's only one thing left - i'm becoming a nun!

That will make him even more interested and he will want to get into your habit even more.

Halcyon · 09-04-2009, 16:20

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Originally Posted by lucy7

To be frank with you, I think she is not interested in going on a date with you, if she was, she would of taken you up on your offer and met up with you, or arranged another date if the date you suggested was not suitable for her.

I would move on.
Good things happen when you do not actively seek them!!

I see your point and if nothing comes of this e-mail I've sent her then I will move on. It's just all the signals were there, she said no problem to meeting up for a meal when I asked originally so I will hope and see if another day is possible.
To tell you the truth although she will now know I'm really into her, until last week I think she only thought I liked her in a joking way and that although I had feelings for her I wouldnt make a move. But now that I am, maybe she wants to play things slowly or see what she thinks of me first.

We got on really well so it would be a shame for it all to end.
I'd hope she would still want to be friends. It just feels like it could be so much more though.

Caspar · 09-04-2009, 16:22

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Originally Posted by lucy7

To be frank with you, I think she is not interested in going on a date with you, if she was, she would of taken you up on your offer and met up with you, or arranged another date if the date you suggested was not suitable for her.

Unless she had something prearranged, like a family get together for easter...

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Originally Posted by superbiatch

How about i tell him that I'm not really into bald heads (not shaven but completely bald) or guys wearing school shorts for work, sitting in a local pub with real ales available and the most unappealing bit to me - he's in his 50's!!!

Now that may make me a bitch, but thats me and he might just get the message

(but i'm not that heartless

). The hard bit is he's deaf so communication is strained to say the least, but he's just not my type at all!

Anyway, enough about my little issue and back to halycon - its his thread

Make a complaint against him, he'll soon get the message

Halcyon · 09-04-2009, 16:28

Yes she is going away for easter to see her Mum and Dad.
I've suggested next week instead. We'l see. If it's a no then I pretty much know she isnt interested.
Plus now she knows my feelings for her. We'l see.

superbiatch · 09-04-2009, 16:32

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Originally Posted by Halcyon

Yes she is going away for easter to see her Mum and Dad.
I've suggested next week instead. We'l see. If it's a no then I pretty much know she isnt interested.
Plus now she knows my feelings for her. We'l see.

I think thats a perfectly good excuse, do they live far away? Do you know info in much depth about her?

Caspar · 09-04-2009, 16:44

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Originally Posted by Halcyon

Yes she is going away for easter to see her Mum and Dad.
I've suggested next week instead. We'l see. If it's a no then I pretty much know she isnt interested.
Plus now she knows my feelings for her. We'l see.

Fair enough, I'd advise leaving her to it for the weekend now. Don't scare her off by emailing rubbish, just to entertain your own desires for her attention

But do make sure you have a chat with her when you'e both back in work after the weekend, a well timed coffee break...a convo as quick as poss so there isn't an dodgy air flying about!

Bare in mind that peeps will be talking all week, so this may put her off. So make sure you keep the contact genuine and pressure free.

Halcyon · 09-04-2009, 16:49

Yes, they live about [Goes to google maps] 200 miles away!

I want her soooooooooooooooooooooo much. On a scale of 1 to 10 she is 100.
It's not the looks (although she is hot), it's her sense of humour, her personality, she's very interesting.

You will all soon be able to buy the book "Halcyon's Crazy Relationships" in all good book stores at the end of the month.

Caspar · 09-04-2009, 16:57

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Originally Posted by Halcyon

Yes, they live about [Goes to google maps] 200 miles away!

I want her soooooooooooooooooooooo much. On a scale of 1 to 10 she is 100.
It's not the looks (although she is hot), it's her sense of humour, her personality, she's very interesting.

You will all soon be able to buy the book "Halcyon's Crazy Relationships" in all good book stores at the end of the month.

it's def lust as a few weeks ago, she was only 30 on the 1-10 scale! now she's 100 on the 1-10 scale hmmmm! obesssed! very common indeed!

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ok, I'm paying way too much attention to this thread!