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Originally Posted by RizzyKing

If this jobcentre person did say this in a way i find it refreshing because as someone with a visual sign of my disability there is nothing worse then going for a job interview and having the interviewer clearly looking at it all the time but never daring to mention it. We are in a visually obsessed world right now and people like it or not have to play to that to a point and while it is all well and good to say that people should be able to express themselves anyway they want and in an ideal world that would be right in the world we have right now looks count and you get both judged and discounted on them. I have had to phone back many times and promise not to hold it against some people to find out the truth for why i never got a job even though i was often the most qualified and most suitable person and the answer has always been my disability. Do i like it no i don't do i understand it yes i do and as time has gone by my skin has thickened to the point where it doesn't bother me anymore and if you want to be visually different thats fine grow the skin to go with it stop expecting the world to molly coddle you something all too many people expect and demand these days precious little things.

I can't agree more.
She chose her appearance.
I'm sure she'll fit in fine somewhere.