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Originally Posted by kronas
yes i know they are attracted, possibly to do with the way a person is built, im incredibly skinny, i dress smart all the time, shirts, jeans....
we were typing about women getting jealous 
its not the fact that being rejected infront of someone is a balancing act, its just the fear of the reaction by the person being approached, what to say, what to do, what if they have a boyfreind ? waiting for somebody ?
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Well picking up on the approaching them bit, women are rarely on their own. I find the worst situation is trying to approach one woman when she is with one other friend. This is always difficult because the other tends to be a bit jealous if she is herself intersted, on the other hand the friend could already be in serious relationship and doesn't want guys coming up and chatting.
Its fortunate that women generally hunt in packs, I prefer to singleout my vctim from a pack before I pounce. It can also be very difficult as women sometimes give the come on, drag you onto the dancefloor, hands all over you. (back in 5 mins off for a cold shower) uhum... Then when you touch in return or ask for their number, they suddenly announce they have a boyfriend.
I appreciate its very difficult, it does however get better with time and age. I could never talk to women when I was your age, but things will just click because after you have had one, its like riding a bike you never forget how the chatting/flirting thing is done. I was in a bar recently and a much younger and very attracive girl kept looking at me and she was being very flirty, playing with her hair and lifting her legs ie: rubbing them together standing on one leg etc. I didnt make a move because I guess I lacked confidence, she looked and I looked each side and around to see who she was looking at. I didn't make a move because I thought "No, that young pretty girl can't be looking at me" Who knows if I had made the move what could of happened.
Apart from a clip around the ear from my girlfriend!