sorry, this might be a long post, but those who are interested in this thread will of course read the below and the thread in it's entirety before commenting on what I have said!
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Originally Posted by Maggy J
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Just wish we could all get along and actually stop arguing/debating about our differences.It is what is dividing our society as a whole..
Just because I don't believe in a deity doesn't mean I should have the right to shove my views down the throat of someone who does believe in a deity..and the majority of those don't actually go around indoctrinating anyone.
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I agree that we should all let everyone believe what they like so long as no one is being hurt or hindered. And I also think that openly discussing different views is vitally important. yes, we can agree to disagree, but if taken too far, people with differing views would end up never speaking and we would end up with a self-created utopia where we can block out anyone with a different view and back-slap everyone with the same view, which I think would be far more dangerous to society. that's exactly how things like racism and stereotypes come about. No one should throw any view down someone else's throat. that said, an internet forum, everyone has the choice to walk away. the same as everyone has the choice to read the bible or read Dawkins' book.
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Originally Posted by Russ
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Carl, with respect you know nothing about him or his circumstances. If he had pre-existing conditions then you know him better than he knows himself. There was nothing along those lines in his medical history.
It would be better for you to simply accept the devastating effect he had coming away from Dawkins' words left him doubting every facet of what he'd previously 'known' to be true. His life was simply turned upside down completely after read that crap.
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the best person to make any diagnosis on this would be a trained psychologist or psychiatrist, not an internet forum - this applies to both sides of the argument. as for self-diagnosis when it comes to psychosis, unresolved emotional issues, mental issues, personality disorders or however you want to term it, well no. you can't do that. like i said earlier, even the insane believe themselves to be sane.
I have no doubt that religion helped your friend through tough times, much like it has yourself. but that does not mean there are not other ways of getting through things. saying that Dawkins' book was the soul reason for your friend to attempt to take his life just isn't fair. If I may quote from Game Of Thrones, which as with many great books / films / programmes, uses the real world and creates a parallel from it:
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Lord Varys: I did what I did for the good of the realm.
Petyr 'Littlefinger' Baelish: The realm. Do you know what the realm is? It's the thousand blades of Aegon's enemies, a story we agree to tell each other over and over, until we forget that it's a lie.
Lord Varys: But what do we have left, once we abandon the lie? Chaos? A gaping pit waiting to swallow us all.
Petyr 'Littlefinger' Baelish: Chaos isn't a pit. Chaos is a ladder. Many who try to climb it fail and never get to try again. The fall breaks them. And some, are given a chance to climb. They refuse, they cling to the realm or the gods or love. Illusions. Only the ladder is real. The climb is all there is.
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some will find that their belief was a 'lie' to them. some will retain their belief as very real. others will never accept the stories and some will sway between what they see and what they want to see. In no way should that take away the immense value that religion brings to so many people around the world. however, if one suddenly feels that what they have been taught holds no truth, or at the very least, does not hold the truth they believed it to bring, then that is down to only one person - themselves. because they them self have chosen to abandon 'the lie' (as it is described in the quote). for you, Russ, Dawkins is the lie. And I doubt very much you will ever spend them time reading his works with an open mind to what it says, rather then what you think it is telling you. I don't know if that is because you fear the book and it's contents? maybe you have the tiniest flicker you fear may be ignitied should you begin to entertain the idea of questioning faith. maybe you are absolute in your unshakeable faith. neither scenario is wrong.
of course, you are free to believe in what you like. and no one should tell you otherwise. there are some who will tell you to lose faith, much the same as there are some of faith who come knocking on my door to tell me I should believe. but those who do that are not necessarily your faith. and you have to accept that not all atheists are trying to make you lose your faith and become godless. and I believe (rightly or wrongly) that Dawkins is merely presenting the other side of the faith argument. if you want to read it, then do. if not, then don't. whatever your thoughts though, it is unfair that you generalise all atheists with the same brush....
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Originally Posted by Russ
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I'm not telling you to believe/disbelieve anything of the sort. I leave that sort of thing to the atheists on here, plenty of then will take it upon themselves to decide what you ought to believe.
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Originally Posted by Russ
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Yeah, generalisations are cool. Much easier to deal with too.
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....we do not all want you to abandon god. we just don't want your faith in god to have you abandon what everything else the world and it's people have to offer. ideologies, no matter what the subject, can cause serious flaws in judgement and focus. need we even mention world war 2? we want you to question your faith, the same as those who are religious would love godless people to question not having a god.
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Originally Posted by Russ
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Dawkins' purpose of that book was to get people to lose their belief. He put a lot of effort in to that and being the intelligent man he is, he succeeded in imposing it on a lot of people.
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taking away any personal or bias view point, I have never myself heard Dawkins say that. I think he just wants people to question their faith, fully. then they can make up their mind about it. his beef is more with the indoctrination that often comes with religion.