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Old 16-02-2020, 10:41   #16
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Re: Caroline Flack found dead

Hopefully Love Island is cancelled with immediate effect.
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For some there's no alternative.
I don't believe that.
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I don't believe that.
Obviously, hence your original comment.
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Obviously, hence your original comment.
You seem to lack empathy..Is there a reason for your attitude?
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You seem to lack empathy..Is there a reason for your attitude?
You're judging me now? Wow, nothing changes.

I've replied to a comment, nothing more and you say I lack empathy. Why because I don't want to take it any further with you.

So get over it, and stop judging others incorrectly.
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I don't believe that.

Sadly Maggy suicide is the only option, especially in the "Trial by media" society we have today.


Look waht happend to a older pop star whose house was raided and the **** BBC had a live helicopter feed from the scene.

Sadly she won't be the last person in front of the camera to take their live.

Also if she wasn't in the public eye this wouldn't even be news, there are many women beaten by their partners and as many men beaten by their partners eveyday that don't get this coverage.
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Sadly Maggy suicide is the only option, especially in the "Trial by media" society we have today.
It's NEVER the only option. People may feel like that is a way out of what's happening.

However being able to talk to someone and having a great support network is certainly the ideal solution.

People may feel backed into a corner and that there is nothing else left as a way out.

Certainly the press and media don't help if it's a celebrity. They need to be held accountable of some suicides. They need to stop dragging every little thing out and reporting it, making things sound far worse than they originally were.
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Re: Caroline Flack found dead

As someone who has been rock bottom, I can certainly empathise with what Caroline must have been feeling in those last few hours. For some of us, however hard it might be for others to see and understand, suicide might not be THE only option, but it can often be seen as THE only option to end suffering inside. Especially with the stigma still surrounding mental health illnesses, people are scared to reach out because they don't want to be seen as weak. Or feel like they are a burden to others.

I only hope that, however painful it might be for her family, they realise that Caroline has found peace in herself. You might call her selfish for doing it, but try putting yourself into a person with mental health issues shoes and spend a day thinking that nobody gives a toss about you, that nobody would care if you weren't there tomorrow, that the only way to end the pain you feel inside yourself is to kill yourself. God knows, that's where I am right now. I don't know what's giving me the strength to carry on, but stop judging people with mental health illnesses and try offering help and support.

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This.
It’s very easy to say this when you’re thinking clearly or even reasonably clearly.

But, when you feel as if you can’t take another step forward both physically and mentally. When you cut yourself not necessarily to kill yourself but you’re so desperate to find a way to get the pain to leave you. Then sometimes suicide is the only choice that you can see.

Some people have to be saved, they can’t save themselves.
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