kronas needs a woman ! - Page 4

Marge · 13-05-2004, 15:31

Attraction is a weird and wonderful thing, what attracts one person to another?? What you may find cute and endearing in one person may be annoying in another. There are many different things that attract, one of them being confidence. If you, Kronas, are walking around with your head down or looking sad, would that be someone a girl would want to get to know. Get your head up high, a big smile on your face and who knows what might happen

On a personal note I really like someone who can make me laugh

aliferste · 13-05-2004, 15:36

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Originally Posted by Bifta

I don't think I'd be wrong in thinking that there are other ways someone can enjoy themselves in a relationship when they're young apart from humping like rabbits constantly.

Now now.....I never said anything about humping.......jeepers, all im saying is he should do something to make himself feel better and good about himself, it might just make him more confident and that might just attract a girlfriend.

And when she finds out hes a computer geek he can move on to the next

altis · 13-05-2004, 16:00

Or she may well have her head screwed on for we all know that the geek shall inherit the earth

kronas · 13-05-2004, 16:01

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Originally Posted by scastle

Oi. Cut that out now. I'm not blind, and you aren't ugly. Thinking you are only does more harm than good.

its the realist in me, unfortunately i have the tendency to be too honest about things, and in all honest (i doubt many disagree) looks are a fundamental part of it, for people.

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Originally Posted by aliferste

Hes young......he should be out enjoying himself ....not looking for a prospective marriage partner.

as bifta pointed out who said marriage ?

not that i would shy away from it but im waaaaay too young to be thinking about that, i dont expect the women of my dreams to come along anyday now, or even to be the first lady i make an acquaintance with, but people dont come to you, you have to make some effort.

kronas · 13-05-2004, 16:06

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Originally Posted by aliferste

all im saying is he should do something to make himself feel better and good about himself, it might just make him more confident and that might just attract a girlfriend.

i see your point, but pumping iron is not my forte

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Originally Posted by aliferste

And when she finds out hes a computer geek he can move on to the next

i am not a computer geek, i like to think of myself as being a calm freindly person, who can give advice, help others, and generally be nice, 'with my head screwed on' so to speak.

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Originally Posted by Debsy42

Attraction is a weird and wonderful thing, what attracts one person to another?? What you may find cute and endearing in one person may be annoying in another. There are many different things that attract, one of them being confidence. If you, Kronas, are walking around with your head down or looking sad, would that be someone a girl would want to get to know. Get your head up high, a big smile on your face and who knows what might happen

i have been to hell and back in the past 6 months, im still there but not as bad, i am TRYING to sort things out, in retrospect its hard to do anything, when you have nothing, and nothing goes right

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Originally Posted by Debsy42

On a personal note I really like someone who can make me laugh

*dreams about one day holding debsy42's hand

Russ · 13-05-2004, 16:13

Despite the dodgy name in the url, I found this which might aid you in your quest to find your dream woman....

edit - oooops, on closer inspection, there is some not-so-nice language used towards the bottom. A few 'f' words pop up, so be warned

kronas · 13-05-2004, 16:20

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Originally Posted by Russ D

Despite the dodgy name in the url, I found this which might aid you in your quest to find your woman....

erm i dont need to know any of that, interms of my demeanour is somewhat not so rough, its just about 'meeting' and 'talking' thats the problem, im not going to change myself, im going to be who i am, not what someone thinks i should be!!

btw the talking thing is actually being confident enough to talk to someone instead of blushing lol

Bifta · 13-05-2004, 16:24

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Originally Posted by kronas

erm i dont need to know any of that, interms of my demeanour is somewhat not so rough, its just about 'meeting' and 'talking' thats the problem, im not going to change myself, im going to be who i am, not what someone thinks i should be!!

btw the talking thing is actually being confident enough to talk to someone instead of blushing lol

Just talking to people should not be embarrassing. If you go out with the frame of mind that you're not looking for anyone, you'll be much more relaxed, confident and more likely to strike it lucky.

Russ · 13-05-2004, 16:24

Do you ever find yourself avoiding eye contact when talking to women? No need to stare or anything but I find it pays to look a woman in the eye just long enough to remember the colour

Marge · 13-05-2004, 16:28

Thanks for that link Russ, my fave: "Most importantly: we are always right; so don't forget it"

kronas · 13-05-2004, 16:30

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Originally Posted by Russ D

Do you ever find yourself avoiding eye contact when talking to women? No need to stare or anything but I find it pays to look a woman in the eye just long enough to remember the colour

i do tend to look women in the eyes(breifly), but i shy away lol

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Originally Posted by Bifta

Just talking to people should not be embarrassing. If you go out with the frame of mind that you're not looking for anyone, you'll be much more relaxed, confident and more likely to strike it lucky.

no, im talking about women who i might find attractive funny someone who livens things up just by watching them.

Bifta · 13-05-2004, 16:32

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Originally Posted by kronas

no, im talking about women who i might find attractive funny someone who livens things up just by watching them.

Doesn't matter if they're attractive to you or not, just talk to them as you would any other human being, if you worry too much about making yourself look foolish in front of them, then that's exactly what you will end up doing.

Marge · 13-05-2004, 16:36

Kronas, this is not a link to the UFO/Alien thread

Women are human too, we're not some mysterious species. We just like someone who we can talk to us (not our chests) and laugh with. Relax and stop fretting and you'll be just fine

kronas · 13-05-2004, 16:36

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Originally Posted by Bifta

Doesn't matter if they're attractive to you or not, just talk to them as you would any other human being, if you worry too much about making yourself look foolish in front of them, then that's exactly what you will end up doing.

im good at talking to anyone, its just you sort of midway change gears and have to think and clam up, not in all instances, if im in he right frame of mind im relaxed and just let my head do the talking things usally workout.

**Paul** · 13-05-2004, 16:39

Why are you in such a hurry Kronas ? - I didn't meet my wife until I was 27.