[merged] what to do (etc .....) - Page 3

Frank · 21-12-2003, 15:31

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Originally Posted by kronas

due to the previous histroy i have with doctors im not going to do that

I think that is the best thing to do mate. If you don't get on with your Doctor then you are entitled to change your doctor and see someone else. Anyone can do this at anytime and it is your right.

I do strongly suggest you go and see a GP for some advice and they will tell you what your other options are. There are also support telephone lines if you prefer to speak to someone over the phone, such as Samaritans.

Whatever you decide to do, bear this in mind. You are very young and you have your whole life ahead of you. If you can hang in there at the moment then I give you my word you will look back on this time and smile about it. Feel free to PM me or e-mail at keyser at nthellworld.co.uk any time.

Bex · 21-12-2003, 16:02

kronie, i think we have shown here and in pm that people here care about you a lot.... i would recommend, as keyser. says maybe talking to the samaratians, they are trained and they are good.... or call sociable, he is a fantastic guy and a great listener....

just remember that you may feel like your at rock bottom, but you can get better...i think every person on this site would admit to having hit rock bottom at one time or another, for various reasons (some more times than others) but we all got out of it, and you will too

paulyoung666 · 21-12-2003, 19:36

there has been some really good suggestions put forward for you kronas , grab at least one of them by the throat and give it a go , sod it i will even let you verbally abuse me if it makes you feel better

Bex · 21-12-2003, 20:55

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Originally Posted by paulyoung666

there has been some really good suggestions put forward for you kronas , grab at least one of them by the throat and give it a go , sod it i will even let you verbally abuse me if it makes you feel better

are we seeing the caring side of paul here?

see kronie that is self sacrifice for you

:p

paulyoung666 · 21-12-2003, 21:03

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Originally Posted by bexy

are we seeing the caring side of paul here?

see kronie that is self sacrifice for you

:p

hey i do have a caring cuddly side you know

, its just that i dont mind being verbally abused if it is going to help , it might sound weird but having a bloody good rant at someone helps sometimes as long as the person you are ranting at doesnt mind , otherwise it usually ends in a bloody nose or two

Bex · 21-12-2003, 21:06

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Originally Posted by paulyoung666

hey i do have a caring cuddly side you know

, its just that i dont mind being verbally abused if it is going to help , it might sound weird but having a bloody good rant at someone helps sometimes as long as the person you are ranting at doesnt mind , otherwise it usually ends in a bloody nose or two

i know you do paul, your a big cuddly bear really

and actually yes it does help to have a rant, i have my rant buddy, who i rant at frequently......poor lad prolly has ear infection after an hour on the phone to me, but then again he always phones back

glutton for punishment obviously :p

paulyoung666 · 21-12-2003, 21:11

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Originally Posted by bexy

i know you do paul, your a big cuddly bear really

and actually yes it does help to have a rant, i have my rant buddy, who i rant at frequently......poor lad prolly has ear infection after an hour on the phone to me, but then again he always phones back

glutton for punishment obviously :p

or tinnitus

only joking

Bex · 21-12-2003, 21:12

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Originally Posted by paulyoung666

or tinnitus

only joking

prolly...but then he calls back, so i can't be that bad...and sometimes i do let him get a word in edge ways.....:p

paulyoung666 · 21-12-2003, 21:16

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Originally Posted by bexy

prolly...but then he calls back, so i can't be that bad...and sometimes i do let him get a word in edge ways.....:p

haway kronas where are you i fancy a good earbashing if you are up for it

or another idea , do you play any online games ????????????? , if you do then let me know and we can trade virtual punches or bullet wounds if you want

Bex · 21-12-2003, 21:27

kronie you have to come back soon, i am missing all the threads you start..the forum is so quiet without you

kronas · 21-12-2003, 21:56

first of all i would like to say a big thank you to everyone who has commented on my problem and the advice you have given its shown me that people on here are caring.........

and also a big thanks to those who have sent me pm's and messages on MSN unfortunately i have no credit on my phone so i cant ring anyone at the moment im not a talkative mood anyway

i understand that i need to talk to someone and i have thought about the suggestions such as the samaritans etc but im a little uneasy at doing such things as im not a person who likes to open up infront of people i simply dont know it goes the same for people i know im just shy and dont want to impose on people i know some are there to help but its been slightly embarssing for me even to type on here

paulyoung666 · 21-12-2003, 22:03

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Originally Posted by kronas

first of all i would like to say a big thank you to everyone who has commented on my problem and the advice you have given its shown me that people on here are caring.........

and also a big thanks to those who have sent me pm's and messages on MSN unfortunately i have no credit on my phone so i cant ring anyone at the moment im not a talkative mood anyway

i understand that i need to talk to someone and i have thought about the suggestions such as the samaritans etc but im a little uneasy at doing such things as im not a person who likes to open up infront of people i simply dont know it goes the same for people i know im just shy and dont want to impose on people i know some are there to help but its been slightly embarssing for me even to type on here

for christs sake people are offering you help , i have even offered to let you abuse me verbally , why dont you try someone out , the fiist step is the biggest , just bloody talk to someone will you

Bex · 21-12-2003, 22:06

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Originally Posted by paulyoung666

for christs sake people are offering you help , i have even offered to let you abuse me verbally , why dont you try someone out , the fiist step is the biggest , just bloody talk to someone will you

paul be nice, or you will get a slap.....kronie has been offered help and it is for him to decide if/when he takes that help..... if he feels pushed into it at all, he will retreat back into his shell, which is not what anyone wants

so :p

Sociable · 21-12-2003, 22:06

No problem Kronas and don't worry about the cost let my number ring three times and then ring off and I will know to call back and that goes for middle of the night too. OK

paulyoung666 · 21-12-2003, 22:28

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Originally Posted by bexy

paul be nice, or you will get a slap.....kronie has been offered help and it is for him to decide if/when he takes that help..... if he feels pushed into it at all, he will retreat back into his shell, which is not what anyone wants

so :p

ok bex

, i feel slapped silly now , i might just go away and cry