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A simple question about love, poetry and leaving home
View Poll Results: So what do you think?
Yes. Pour your soul out. 2 6.25%
No. Bad idea; leave it. 12 37.50%
WTF are you playing at? No! 13 40.63%
Yes, just do it. Get over it and move on... 5 15.63%
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Old 13-08-2005, 19:03   #31
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the innuendo i could post here....must resist, and guard agaisnt the nugmeister.....must....resist...
Awww go on, go on, go on, go on!!!!!!!
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the innuendo i could post here....must resist, and guard agaisnt the nugmeister.....must....resist...
Awww go on, go on, go on, go on!!!!!!!
STIG????????
I shall behave...for now...

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Old 13-08-2005, 20:04   #33
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Re: simple question

I dunno. The important thing here is that she already knows how you feel so there is little point in that poetry idea.

If you just want something for her to remember you then I suggest a present. You want something for her to remember you in a positive way, the poetry MAY freak her out. I dunno though, I am not good at that stuff either
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Old 13-08-2005, 20:17   #34
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Maybe a Pearl Necklace or something.
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"hmm... i could giver her a picture of my erec" Who is Eric??????????
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But spectacular might really scare her off!
I think the photo idea is lovely - she will always have that to remind her of you. As Coggy said, keep the poetry for yourself, it will be a lovely reminder in years to come.
i dont mean the scare off over spectacular type, the thought of that would put me off, maybe i should get something chavie
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his name is eriction


i dont mean the scare off over spectacular type, the thought of that would put me off, maybe i should get something chavie
was it not Eric Shawn ??????????

if its chav stuff she likes, then poetry is not the way to go as someone suggested you do, but everyone else says no to.

then she would probably like her name on a necklace from Elizabeth Duke, that very expensive ARGOS brand...............

seriously, something that she can see nearly daily, is not too personal, and it should suit your personality, as a present you would want to give, and a present she would want to buy for herself. this makes it a better more personal momento. I think she would like something like this.

but what is this, well that is where you have to do a lot of work and thinking, only you know her, and only you really know you truley.

there you go,,,, clear as mud.

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Old 14-08-2005, 23:09   #36
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Re: simple question

I dont know the whole story but I wouldnt give her the poetry, Keep it for yourself and lock it away.
Also I dont think the photo of both of you is a good idea either, If a male friend of mine gave me a frame with our photo's in I would think that real weird
I think a cute card, blank inside so that you can just write a few words on the lines of good luck etc would be ok and she can keep that without it being too much
I dont know the situation but if she likes you she will have you in her head already, material stuff isnt needed
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get her drunk while you stay cunningly sober then poor your soul out ,if she likes it then wayhey if not you can say you were both drunk and just rambling


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Old 14-08-2005, 23:16   #38
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get her drunk while you stay cunningly sober then poor your soul out ,if she likes it then wayhey if not you can say you were both drunk and just rambling


Cant vote for some reason my choice isnt up there
...You were asking for that
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Old 14-08-2005, 23:49   #40
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get her drunk while you stay cunningly sober then poor your soul out ,if she likes it then wayhey if not you can say you were both drunk and just rambling


Cant vote for some reason my choice isnt up there
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get her drunk while you stay cunningly sober then poor your soul out ,if she likes it then wayhey if not you can say you were both drunk and just rambling


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Can't be, from the sounds of that he's proposing that the bloke buys all the drinks
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Kronas, I'm with Ellie on this one, if she wanted any kind of relationship with you then it would have happened by now. She has memories of you and that can be better than any present which could be convienently shoved in a drawer or put on a car boot sale. Cherish the time you've had with her, wish her all the best and put this all behind you, chin up and Miss Right will be along sometime soon for you.
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Re: simple question

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the innuendo i could post here....must resist, and guard agaisnt the nugmeister.....must....resist...
Oi! What did I do?

In all seriousness Kronas, isn't it just time to move on? As you've said, she knows how you feel about her, so might it not boff up the memories that you both have if you give her a gift of any sort?

What if you hand over whatever it is you get, and it's firmly rebuffed. IMO, it's time for you to move on and see what happens in the future - as Coggy said, you're only 19 once so just try to enjoy the present, instead of mulling over the past.
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Can't be, from the sounds of that he's proposing that the bloke buys all the drinks
Most likely just a few double vodkas will do the job

On a serious note though, Maybe the subject could be bought up in a subtle way,or maybe he should just come out with it and say " have you ever thought about a possible future for us" .Im not say kronos says " oh before you leave im in love with you" cuz thats to heavy,but she is going anyway it may be worth a shot...

BTW im useless in matters of the heart so im best ignored
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Most likely just a few double vodkas will do the job

On a serious note though, Maybe the subject could be bought up in a subtle way,or maybe he should just come out with it and say " have you ever thought about a possible future for us" .Im not say kronos says " oh before you leave im in love with you" cuz thats to heavy,but she is going anyway it may be worth a shot...

BTW im useless in matters of the heart so im best ignored
kronas has already declared himself and his feelings to this girl..she said she wasn't interested.In fact I think it was the 'let's just be friends scenario'.
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