what does it for you?

[Ramrod]

I voted for 'other'. The whole 'package' has to be good for me to be interested. I'm fussy like that
....edit....if pressed I would admit to a preference for personality, face, legs, buttocks and breasts......in that order

Originally Posted by Ramrod

I voted for 'other'. The whole 'package' has to be good for me to be interested. I'm fussy like that
....edit....if pressed I would admit to a preference for personality, face, legs, buttocks and breasts......in that order

put like that, the abstract for me would be breasts, face, buttocks, legs

- but personality &, above all, a sense of humour, are ultimately the most attractive traits, imo,

[danielf]

Personality first, then face/eyes. When it comes to the mundane: legs/buttocks rule supreme...

I voted 'other' because I really can't decide which bit I like best I guess it's the overall combination, all neatly sewn together by a nice personality, that really does it for me.

[Halcyon]

I just pick up on certain things, the way someone laughs, how funny they are, the way they chat and we laugh.. that kind of thing.
Its true that we see the person first before talking to them, and then we can get to know them better....
But most people I have liked have been people I have had as friends or not been attracted to originally until I have got to know them and see their personality.
I guess its a mix of the two in a way. Sometimes you just dont know what it is...its the little things and everything about that person as you like them so much.
But thinking about how someone made you laugh, or how much fun you have together is something that you can share and remember.
A physical look is going to be nice for a while but it does not last and does not tell you half as much about the person as does their personality.

Dont know if I made sense there, I'm tired tonight but there you go.

[Marge]

Have to say I'm a sucker for short dark hair but personality is important too

[danielf]

Originally Posted by Halcyon

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I agree, actually what I was most attracted to in my present partner (we've been together for 8 yrs now) was her intellect. I have to admit she has lovely eyes, legs and buttocks as well though

[Nikko]

Generally I find if a girl is stunning looking, intelligent, amusing, fantastic in bed and loves me to bits, the rest comes later.

[kronas]

Originally Posted by Debsy42

Have to say I'm a sucker for short dark hair but personality is important too

i always have short hair, my hair is dark too

Originally Posted by Dave Stones

so you go for a girl who has a great personality, as long as she is willing to wear a short skirt?

skirts that get too short dont do a lot for me.... doesn't leave enough to the imagination

no what i meant was if i saw one in the street i would perv (if good looking) admitting that as i am a red blooded male

[Chimaera]

Not many ladies on this thread so far - hi Debsy!
Mmmmmmm - well for me the personality is the main thing - if he can make me laugh then YES!!!
Tall is good too - and a nice face (especially the eyes).
Oh - and a nice bum!

You are all sick, twisted shallow people! So i am right at home!

Originally Posted by kronas

i have not disregarded the rest of your post your quite right, im commenting on this as a specific that i can agree with you on, the women i would like do not have to be supermodels or with large breasts, stick thin body, give me someone with personality looks come later, i find im attracted to people who may not be the best looking but you like them because of the personality, the way they are articulate, handle themselves, funny, attitude, you get that feeling, you click because of the personailty and fun you have...

for me anyway

I totally agree with you. I'm a big lass (in more ways than one), a plain jane, but have a cracking personality, but most people don't see that as they go by first impressions.

[kronas]

Originally Posted by Buxom_woman

I totally agree with you. I'm a big lass (in more ways than one), a plain jane, but have a cracking personality, but most people don't see that as they go by first impressions.

aww never mind, you seem fun seriously though i have seen some reasonably good looking women, quite thin (not stick thin) decent looking ( not the hottest) but the personality is left alot to be desired for i can tell you

im not denying there is a physical attraction, its just ALOT of people need to realise looks are NOT everything

[Paul K]

Originally Posted by Damien

You are all sick, twisted shallow people! So i am right at home!

Yet you failled to say what your choice was
All I can say is that looks are nothing if the person is ugly inside.
If someone attracts you because of their body or looks then you need to think about about wether you will still be attracted to them in years to come when those assets may no longer be the same.
Me, I'm a package person, looks aren't as important to me as the person is

hair, face, personality. If shes so fat that she takes up the whole back-seat and drools while she talks and has a rag to clean her self with then it might turn me off...........what?

I remember years ago when some kid in my class said that it mattered what a women looked like so you dont throw up every morning. LOL. he was weird