I'm getting fed up with BBC - Page 2

downquark1 · 26-07-2003, 22:13

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Originally posted by Incognitas
Ok you win!You are so much smarter than every adult you ever met.

Incog.

When did I say I wasn't an adult? That would be posting personal information

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And I think that is uncalled for. I was only saying that not every teenager is a looking for trouble and irresponsible.

Sociable · 26-07-2003, 22:27

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Originally posted by keithwalton
SNIP<So what because some person thinks he knows best for everyone that i should not be allowed to make such friends ? i think its rather ignorant of them to think that. Either that or there part of a conspiracy against everyone the british. until you get to know what its like in other countries you dont know just how badly we are treated by the rest of the world !

Nobody is saying that at all what is being said is that some children are vulnerable to abuse. No more no less.

If parents taking a more active interest in their kids as a result saves just one child all this reporting will have been worth it.

If a few "lads" cant access the porn sites as readily as they can now as a result or have to stop hiding away in darkened rooms surfing all night, sorry I wont lose any sleep, and to be honest neither will they.

Stuart W · 26-07-2003, 22:27

I let my kids on the net unsupervised. But, they are 'net savey'.

They don't use chatrooms at all. If they want to chat to their friends it's done through MSN or Yahoo.

I like giving my kids the freedom on the net and they like me for it.

BTW, I have adult sites blocked by my firewall, but I doubt my kids would be looking for it.
I also have a log of all the sites they have been to and all conversations over MSN / Yahoo. The understanding is that I won't ever read them until I have fair reason to.

Kids can be perfectly safe on the internet as long as they see it as being outside in a park but blindfolded. Anyone you talk to could potentialy grab you and run away.
OK, on the net it's not as easy to grab, but the ease of deception kinda balances things out.
That's how I explained it to my kids and they have a damn good understanding of it.

**Maggy** · 26-07-2003, 22:31

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Originally posted by Sociable
Nobody is saying that at all what is being said is that some children are vulnerable to abuse. No more no less.

If parents taking a more active interest in their kids as a result saves just one child all this reporting will have been worth it.

If a few "lads" cant access the porn sites as readily as they can now as a result or have to stop hiding away in darkened rooms surfing all night, sorry I wont lose any sleep, and to be honest neither will they.

Agreed!

Incog.

downquark1 · 26-07-2003, 22:31

I agree with Stuart, you explain the dangers, as I've said before they are not stupid.

Has anymore information been released about the american and that girl? The media has moved on to the next flavour of the week, the doctor kelly ordeal.

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If a few "lads" cant access the porn sites as readily as they can now as a result or have to stop hiding away in darkened rooms surfing all night, sorry I wont lose any sleep, and to be honest neither will they.

This maybe be a controversial remark but: How does porn harm teenage boys? And I resent the sexism.

Sociable · 26-07-2003, 22:33

Well said Stuart !!!!!

A perfectly well balanced set of rules and freedoms.

I applaud you and I bet your Kids will grow up to be good parents in their turn too as a result.

Stuart W · 26-07-2003, 23:36

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Originally posted by Sociable
Well said Stuart !!!!!

A perfectly well balanced set of rules and freedoms.

I applaud you and I bet your Kids will grow up to be good parents in their turn too as a result.

Why, thank you very much

kronas · 27-07-2003, 00:07

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Originally posted by Sociable

If parents taking a more active interest in their kids as a result saves just one child all this reporting will have been worth it.

If a few "lads" cant access the porn sites as readily as they can now as a result or have to stop hiding away in darkened rooms surfing all night, sorry I wont lose any sleep, and to be honest neither will they.

i understand where your coming from but the fact remains the way the media push the stories it seems to me that that there are delibrate scare tatics in use disguised as information

as for your last paragraph a typical comment from adults who dont fully understand what they media are trying to do and look in to those thoughts