A simple question about love, poetry and leaving home - Page 2

kronas · 13-08-2005, 01:16

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Originally Posted by danielf

And I told you not to... Bad or should I say Sad Kronas.

it wasent engraved though, im learning the hardway, ive learnt my lesson, after this i think ill stay single.

ikthius · 13-08-2005, 08:27

Do not give out the poetry. it is very sad & desperate. Sorry Mate.

just give her a small present that will remind her of you, not jewlery. Sorry I would not.

I do feel for you, as I am very bad at getting the girls, probably cause I have no self confidence in that area.

good luck,

ik

13-08-2005, 11:06

You could get that picture of her and the lolly framed for her?

Inexpensive, has meaning and she will always remember who took it...

Raistlin · 13-08-2005, 11:40

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Originally Posted by Tuftus

You could get that picture of her and the lolly framed for her?

Inexpensive, has meaning and she will always remember who took it...

I'd forgotten about that picture

That's actually a nice idea

If you've got a picture of the two of you together perhaps you could buy one of those double frames, put the one of her on her own in one side and the picture of both of you in the other.

punky · 13-08-2005, 12:05

I wouldn't do it if I was you mate. She is leaving so no good can come out of this (she already knows you like her), but this could really backfire spectactularly ensuring that not only do you not see her again, you won't speak, e-mail or write to her either. It could really batter her emotionally, as I know some of your poems, and at best give her heartache, at worse, completely freak her out.

You mentioned you are learning from past mistakes, like with the Ipod, please listen to us this time, we only want what's best for you, and many of us have learned the hard way too. Please don't do it.

A small, inexpensive but personal gift like Tuftus' picture idea is a pretty good one. It isn't out of character, so it shouldn't really change the way she feels about you.

As I have said no good can come out of this, only trouble, I can't advise you more strongly not to do it mate.

ikthius · 13-08-2005, 13:00

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Originally Posted by Tuftus

You could get that picture of her and the lolly framed for her?

Inexpensive, has meaning and she will always remember who took it...

is it the same girl???

ik

13-08-2005, 14:29

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Originally Posted by ikthius

is it the same girl???

ik

I think so...

If not I am sure Kronas could apply the idea with another more suitable pic

**Maggy** · 13-08-2005, 16:29

kronas keep the poetry for yourself as memories to cherish.

Don't give up..keep looking...the next girl may be the one or she may not but you should enjoy the time that it takes to find the right girl..you are only 19 once...enjoy it while you are as young as you are.

Tezcatlipoca · 13-08-2005, 16:31

Sorry, but I've gone for option 3.

Really not a good idea....

kronas · 13-08-2005, 16:36

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Originally Posted by Tuftus

I think so...

correct it is the same person.

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Originally Posted by Tuftus

If not I am sure Kronas could apply the idea with another more suitable pic

hmm... i could giver her a picture of my erec....no i dont think thats wise

ive said it before poetry thing is out of the window, however im still looking for something suitable, i have a few weeks yet, i tend to go for the spectacular mind

**Maggy** · 13-08-2005, 16:38

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Originally Posted by kronas

correct it is the same person.

hmm... i could giver her a picture of my erec....no i dont think thats wise

ive said it before poetry thing is out of the window, however im still looking for something suitable, i have a few weeks yet, i tend to go for the spectacular mind

You are not listening! Keep it simple and don't go over the top...PLEASE.

Chimaera · 13-08-2005, 16:41

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Originally Posted by kronas

i tend to go for the spectacular mind

But spectacular might really scare her off!
I think the photo idea is lovely - she will always have that to remind her of you. As Coggy said, keep the poetry for yourself, it will be a lovely reminder in years to come.

makikomi · 13-08-2005, 18:36

I would select one of your best poems - one that conveys how you feel, but which doesn't go over the top - and present it to her.

I'd tell her I would really miss her, but wish her all the best, and then leave it at that.

If she knows how you feel, but hasn't taken things further herself, it would unwise to press matters further.

budwieser · 13-08-2005, 18:43

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Originally Posted by markymoan

maybe a necklace with her name on it ????

Maybe a Pearl Necklace or something.

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Originally Posted by kronas

correct it is the same person.

hmm... i could giver her a picture of my erec....no i dont think thats wise

ive said it before poetry thing is out of the window, however im still looking for something suitable, i have a few weeks yet, i tend to go for the spectacular mind

"hmm... i could giver her a picture of my erec" Who is Eric??????????

AndrewJ · 13-08-2005, 19:01

the innuendo i could post here....must resist, and guard agaisnt the nugmeister.....must....resist...