Crush at work - Page 14

Halcyon · 10-04-2009, 15:17

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Originally Posted by Hom3r

I don't honestly know.

Obviously you have to weigh up what it would be like since you work with her.
But too many of us let opportunities pass and then live to regret them.

Ok so it is going to be a moment of nerve wracking seconds when you go and ask her out but once it is done, it's a huge weight lifted.
Atleast you will know and can move on with your life.

If you feel feel confident enough that there is a chance she could be interested or atleast open to go out for a drink maybe, then go for it.
Even if you go out and it ends up being a drink more as friends than anything else then atleast you will know.

I think there is a part of me which didnt want to say anything to my crush as I thought whilst she didnt know there was stilla chance she might like me.... I didnmt want to know and be dissapointed but then if you live like that you'l be wondering everyday what could happen if she did say yes or if she was interested.

Halcyon · 15-04-2009, 00:42

Update:

She hasnt logged on to facebook and I havent had any replies after the last email telling her how I felt and wishing her a happy easter. She now knows my feelings for her.

I've seen that she's logged on to match.com so she must have atleast got my email since she was online.

The only thing I can do now is wait til Monday when I see her at work and give her the Lindt bunny I got her. I'm not looking forward to Monday as it is bound to be awkward.

I just hope she wants to talk, see if we can still meet up.

Oh well. I'm not giving up just as yet. She would have mailed back to say she's not interested hopefully if she was not wanting anything. Plus I think she is still away down South.

lauzjp · 15-04-2009, 13:22

aw, as said above - you can't spend the rest of your days wondering 'what if' - I think it's great that you took the bull by the horns as it were.

mrmistoffelees · 15-04-2009, 13:56

At the end of the day, Rohypnol is your friend

NB: Do not actually do this.............Seriously, just don't

**Maggy** · 15-04-2009, 14:28

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Originally Posted by Halcyon

Update:

She hasnt logged on to facebook and I havent had any replies after the last email telling her how I felt and wishing her a happy easter. She now knows my feelings for her.

I've seen that she's logged on to match.com so she must have atleast got my email since she was online.

The only thing I can do now is wait til Monday when I see her at work and give her the Lindt bunny I got her. I'm not looking forward to Monday as it is bound to be awkward.

I just hope she wants to talk, see if we can still meet up.

Oh well. I'm not giving up just as yet. She would have mailed back to say she's not interested hopefully if she was not wanting anything. Plus I think she is still away down South.

Can I remind you that affairs of the heart don't always go well if you have just come out of a relationship..it maybe that you came across as desperate,or she doesn't fancy you that much,or she's having fun where she's been staying recently or she just doesn't want to get that serious with you.I warned you to to take it slowly as that's just how it goes sometimes.

Whatever you do next Monday don't jump on her asking why she didn't contact you...Play it cool until she says anything..Just be welcoming and ask if she had a good time on holiday..If it's going to work then she will carry the conversation forward and you can perhaps broach the subject of another drink/meal/cinema trip.Take your time..you have more of it than you think.

Halcyon · 15-04-2009, 23:40

Thanks for your reply and advice Maggy.

I can see what you mean and would hope that I wasnt too desperate. I have known her for a long time and think she knew I liked her so didnt think a few e-mails would be too intense. I'm leaving it at that now. Nothing more. It's her call now.

It's just strange when she's been so fun and nice in the past and actually when we last talked wanted to really meet up.

I'm not going to just jump in there on Monday and have a go at her. I wouldnt do that.
I'l definately ask her how her holidays have been. I got her an easter egg so will give her that and then leave it at that.
See what she wants to do. Her call.

superbiatch · 16-04-2009, 07:44

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Originally Posted by Halcyon

I got her an easter egg so will give her that and then leave it at that.
See what she wants to do. Her call.

Have you ever bought her an easter egg before? If not, then I'd steer clear of giving it to her as it may be seen as being a bit 'pushy'.

If all goes well with her on Monday, then by all means share the egg

Gary L · 16-04-2009, 21:50

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Originally Posted by superbiatch

Have you ever bought her an easter egg before? If not, then I'd steer clear of giving it to her as it may be seen as being a bit 'pushy'.

If all goes well with her on Monday, then by all means share the egg

If it all goes well sharing the egg. buy some more and do it again

superbiatch · 16-04-2009, 22:09

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Originally Posted by Gary L

If it all goes well sharing the egg. buy some more and do it again

For once Gary - I agree with you!

Gary L · 16-04-2009, 22:20

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Originally Posted by superbiatch

For once Gary - I agree with you!

That hurts to know

Halcyon · 17-04-2009, 19:47

Yes, I bought her chocolate before and we shared some chooclate the other day too.
Plus I told her I'd buy her one.

fireman328 · 17-04-2009, 20:52

I've just been talking to my sister. She's a female what else could she be ?

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Halcyon · 21-04-2009, 16:21

And that my friends, is how this thread ends, on planet disaster!

fireman328 · 21-04-2009, 16:46

Cue lights, Taras, theme playing and FINIS. Its a wrap folks !

Gary L · 21-04-2009, 16:49

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Originally Posted by fireman328

Cue lights, Taras, theme playing and FINIS. Its a wrap folks !

I'll ask then. what happened?