23-01-2004, 12:33
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Cot deaths reviewed
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23-01-2004, 23:08
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Re: Cot deaths reviewed
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Originally Posted by Ramrod
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How can they make up for wat all of them people have gone through
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23-01-2004, 23:21
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Re: Cot deaths reviewed
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Originally Posted by luftys
How can they make up for wat all of them people have gone through
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They can't. Makes me cry, especially when I think of the kids that have been removed from their families.
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23-01-2004, 23:37
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Re: Cot deaths reviewed
What I found unbelievable is that if an expert says that a child may have died of a parental attack rather than cot death, any further children that couple have can be taken away at birth, even if no criminal case is brought before them!
And with the family court being closed and behind doors, they aren't allowed to discuss what goes on in them.
Just imagine that, your baby dies from cot death, the police investigate and find no suspicious goings on, social services come in, take you to family court, in the mean time you and your partner get pregnant, some "expert" say that you may possibly have killed your first child, the court orders that you are unable to be a parent and when your child is born, it will be taken away and there's nothing you can do about it.
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23-01-2004, 23:48
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Re: Cot deaths reviewed
Does not bare thinking about.
Social Services have a lot to answer for,I just pray that it help people in the future
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23-01-2004, 23:55
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Re: Cot deaths reviewed
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Originally Posted by luftys
Social Services have a lot to answer for,I just pray that it help people in the future
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Sociable had a (questionable taste) joke about it somewhere on this forum, goes something like this: Q: Whats the difference between a crocodile and a social worker? A: You can get your child back from a crocodile
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24-01-2004, 13:15
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Re: Cot deaths reviewed
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Originally Posted by Ramrod
They can't. Makes me cry, especially when I think of the kids that have been removed from their families.
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i didn't read the whole article in the end...read most of it but it is upsetting to know what the justice system has put some women through, while other genuine cases of child abuse go unnoticed...
i have seen the pain that occurs through losing a child through cot death, and to think some people had to go through that pain, coupled with being accused of killing their child (the child they are mourning) and THEN having any subsequent children taken away from me... it makes me soooooooo MAD... especially when i know of people who do not deserve to have kids, and yet social services do nothing about them
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24-01-2004, 13:38
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Re: Cot deaths reviewed
sad, so sad
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