[merged] what to do (etc .....)
22-12-2003, 16:56
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Re: what to do ?
it's kinda the way i am paul
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22-12-2003, 16:57
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Re: what to do ?
bifta, kronas failed to tell the entire story on certain things. it's not best to make a judgement on his history without that don't you think?
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22-12-2003, 16:59
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Re: what to do ?
I understood where you were coming from Homealone, wasn't really referring to anyone here when I said "no matter what anyone says" just being general really.
If you know him Bug perhaps the best plan is to say these things to him in person. I guess you have good motives though if he is your friend. All I'll say is when you are in a depressed state of mind, reason isn't the thing that comes to mind most easily. You need people to be supportive really and cognizant of the frame of mind you are in and that you might not be viewing things as you would if you weren't depressed.
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22-12-2003, 16:59
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Re: what to do ?
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Originally Posted by Bug Infestation
it's kinda the way i am paul
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funny you should say that , i had kinda guessed  , i suppose it is upto kronas or whatever you are calling him to come out with the truth if he wants to
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22-12-2003, 17:00
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Re: what to do ?
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Originally Posted by Bug Infestation
bifta, kronas failed to tell the entire story on certain things. it's not best to make a judgement on his history without that don't you think?
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Fair enough, personally your post didn't bother me but you'll have a hard time convincing others.
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22-12-2003, 17:02
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Re: what to do ?
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Originally Posted by Nor
No matter what people say giving someone who is depressed a 'kick up the bum' to try and 'snap him out of it' is the worst thing you can do ever.
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Absolutly correct !!!
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22-12-2003, 17:04
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Re: what to do ?
nor. me and other people have tried to sort these problems out in person. taz is incredibly unwilling to open up to us.
airing out my thoughts here were originally(in big capital letters ) my only way to prevent him from failing to hear what i had to say
paul, i feel if he is to open up to you guys, he really ought to tell you everything about the situation. not just the details so he can get the answer he wants
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22-12-2003, 17:05
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Re: what to do ?
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Originally Posted by Bug Infestation
i see kronas just about every day and he is one of my best friends |
Wow  glad your not his enemy !!!!! 
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22-12-2003, 17:05
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Re: what to do ?
sociable, i disagree. i do see where you are coming from, but i feel an honest approcah is better than "mollycoddling" him
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22-12-2003, 17:06
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Re: what to do ?
that made me laugh basa
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22-12-2003, 17:07
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Re: what to do ?
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Originally Posted by Bug Infestation
i see kronas just about every day and he is one of my best friends
there's a "small insight" for you |
Sorry but this explains a lot.
And yes some of us are "qualified" to offer help so please do not make assumtions about us.
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22-12-2003, 17:08
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Re: what to do ?
sorry sociable
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22-12-2003, 17:11
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Re: what to do ?
should be fun when bexy pop's in later 
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22-12-2003, 17:12
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Re: what to do ?
that's a shame. i start work at 7 too
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22-12-2003, 17:15
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Re: what to do ?
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Originally Posted by Sociable
Sorry but this explains a lot.
And yes some of us are "qualified" to offer help so please do not make assumtions about us.
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So how long did you spend at medical school?
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