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Originally Posted by Orior
Part One tells me that affairs happen, and always end up with people getting hurt. Or do they?
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They do. Always. That's not to say that people can't recover from it, but an affair always leaves its mark.
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Surely there are many affairs that have pleasant outcomes.
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Not sure I'd have used the word 'pleasant', but I know what you mean.
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Particularly if the married couple are simply existing together because of inertia or whatever.
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Even when a marriage has stagnated it doesn't mean that an affair/divorce/separation is the logical next step. But it seems more often than not the outcome - I suppose that's a lot to do with the fact that it's possibly 'easier' to start again, than to acknowledge the failings or to put the 'work' in to revitalise the stagnated marriage.
But, sometimes people get married for the wrong reasons, or at the wrong time in their life - whatever - and then, sometimes, by going their separate ways they get a chance to find new happiness. I guess that's what you meant by a 'pleasant outcome'.