I know this has been discussed many times and is a contentious issue to say the least, but within
this article I found an interesting quote
Quote:
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Chief executive (British Pregnancy Advisory Service) Ann Furedi said: "If the time limit is lowered some women will be forced to become unwilling mothers."
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Now, I might be reading more into that statement than I can justify logically, but doesn't that sound like a description of rape?
Words like "forced" and "unwilling" certainly trigger that association in my mind anyway.
I'm not trying to make any point on the time limit debate itself, but surely the
"pro-choice" camp are doing themselves no favours if they use terminology like this in a context that makes the mothers position sound totally at odds with the reality of sex and pregnancy.
I can understand if it sounds a bit silly to suggest, but with the decision to have sex comes the added responsibility of possible pregnancy doesn't it?
No contraception is 100% effective after all.
I'm probably being totally non-politically correct to suggest that to have sex should bring the condition to understand what could happen as a result.
I'm not naive enough to suggest that it's a realistic expectation, but I do get annoyed when people use language that seems to assume that people can get pregnant in some "forced" or "unwilling" way other than being raped.
The image being painted by many people in this debate, is that the poor defenceless mother is pregnant against her will and we're utterly heartless to even suggest that someone may have a selfish or immoral motive when considering abortion.
The reality, in my opinion, is far from that.
Increasingly, people are being led into the belief that you can get as much sex as you can with as many people as you like. Have fun and don't worry about consequences.
If you get pregnant, it's an unfortunate, inconveinient side effect that can be cured with a pill or medical proceedure as if it's an infection/disease or something.
Buy a new car, have another baby... if the finances get a bit too stretched, just get rid of them, after all they're as expendable as each other aren't they?
Anyone else got an opinion on this side of things?