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Originally Posted by Hom3r
My dad if finding to much to handle, so my sister and I will do as much as we can and involving our dad as needed.
We will possible sort out a plot on our own and if possible near roses as that is her middle name. Also the possibility a Rosewood coffin, depending on cost as she would what to spend silly money.
I have good moment and bad, I start to talk about thinks and start to quiver.
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I'm not surprised your father is having a hard time , he has lost a partner of many years just as you and your sister have lost a mother. It is a difficult time for all of you more so when it comes to making the funeral arrangements as that suggests a moment of finality.
The next week or so is going to be especially difficult as all these details have to be sorted out. Inside you are going to be hurting like hell but outside you have to appear to be strong to support you father, sister and the rest of the family.
Once everything is resolved make sure you take the time to mourn in whatever way is best for you. We are all different in how we that but we all need to.