[Nemesis]

Originally Posted by bexy

oh im sure they can, i am not disputing that, but me personally, i want to stay home with my kids, i want to have that special bond with them....it's only fair that we get some time off work to bring the kids up, after nine months of having them grow inside of us, the morning sickness, putting on weight, the weird food cravings, and then labour :p

... and what if your other half wants to too ??? What then, you'll bring up the 'I've been carrying it" argument ?? Unfair...