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Originally Posted by danielf
I can't believe noone came up with this: Just be yourself... I know it can be nerve wrecking asking her out, but if she agrees to go on a date, just be yourself. You won't have to pretend!
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hear hear ... this is the soundest advice in the whole thread, IMHO. This girl is a friend already, she's going to wonder what's up if you start acting in any way differently than you do normally when you're together. You need to be honest and talk to her, just how you normally would about serious stuff. The only thing I would be careful of is don't broach the subject while you're somewhere she might feel trapped or obliged to behave in a certain way (like in your car, if you have one). Her home territory, or somewhere neutral, is best.
Relax, be honest, but don't come on all heavy.
EDIT: And don't forget to tell us all how it goes!