Uploading and Downloading at same time should not "RESET" a modem, if thats the case how come it hasnt happened for the last two months where ive been using Bit Torrent and indeed downloading from Newsgroups and uploading to my webspace at the same time?
That would not cause a modem to RESET im afraid.
Also my problems look like they are sorted

Im not gonna shout from rooftops yet, ill monitor the situation