Well all I can say is hang in there.We females need to grow the hell up as well.When we do you will be ready and waiting one hopes?
I too cannot understand this attitude of 'I'd rather go out with a barsteward than a REAL man.' I never fell into that trap myself..But I saw plenty that did.
I also saw plenty of nice sweet guys who fell into the clutches of b*itches too.More than once too.
Trouble is we are a species that is still instinctual whilst trying to be intellectual.The two seem to conflict waaaay too much.Instinct wants sexy hard tight buns(good breeding potential) or wonderful mammary glands(good feeding potential) but intellect knows that other qualities matter in the present day and age.Heart and head are not always on speaking terms with each other.
So lads and lasses it would appear that the two sexes have more in common than we think.We are both confused and lost...