[punky]

Isn't just a male thing, but an any-person thing. Some people (female or male) are just better at shopping for people, than others.

We don't know what she's into so its hard to say. Something she could use would be best, and still personal enough. CDs or DVDs would fit the bill here. If she doesn't like that, some kind of gadget that she can use to make her life more bareable. I'd avoid jewellery, clothes, etc.