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Originally Posted by Incognitas
Back right off right now...It could end in tears.an affair with a workmate in this day and age is fraught with all sorts of problems.Have you ever had an affair at work before?
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I did have an affair at work many years ago, when I was about 21 yrs old. The lady in question went off work long term with personal problems, the manager visited her and I was called into the office because it was assumed it was due to our relationship. It was assumed that I had something to do with her being long term sick and eventualy finishing work, the worst part was I knew the real reason but wasn't in a position to tell tales.
It did teach me a lesson, even though I am a terrible flirt with the women I know its safe to do with in work, I am probably known for my general lack of interest in women in the workplace. People who know me socially assume that I am the same in work, but thats not the case. I usually avoid christmas parties for that reason.
She has only been out to see me twice today, and was not so bad. I understand one of the older women in the office has had words with her. I think the problem is one in the office who is married and originaly from the South Wales vallies!!! always has a joke with me, and refers to me as "The dirty Welsh sh****r" I think this young girl possibly started taking things a bit far after listening to the other women joking with me.
I hope she stops it now, I felt very uncomfortable because she seemed so serious.
Answer to Zoombini.
Thanks for the suggestion I will try anything once, been there done that when I was 31
