[danielf]

Originally Posted by ian@huth

I didn't post any details that couldn't be found with a little thinking and Googling. I took it that the original poster has a problem and is desperate for help. These pleas for help have been floating about on the net for several months. It appears that the OP does not have English as a first language and therefore it is hard to understand exactly what they want. The OP has posted with slightly different information on forums in several countries. My feeling was that the more we could find out about the OP, the easier it may be to uncover more posts by them which may fill in gaps and explain better their problem and what they are looking for. I don't accept the view that the OP doesn't want any help unless we understand what she is talking about. They seem very desperate for any help and it may only be a language thing that prevents us from understanding what they are talking about. I don't mind "fussing" over this if it can result in badly needed help being given to someone who desperately needs it.

From what I've seen it appears to me this person needs professional help, something which I think few if any people on this forum are qualified to give.

Well-meant advice by someone who is not qualified may do more harm than good imo.