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Originally Posted by NitroNutter

To put this into another light so you may better understand

You allready are aware I was in a highly volotile hetro household , this was till about age 9. My old man did return for a very short time but then it was worse than ever before so his second stay was not for long a few months or so.

Now the extent of the birds and bees instilled into me by my parents was as much as this so you cannot say hetro was forced down my throat
My father said just before he left the last time
"one day you may meet a girl you wish to have some privacy with"
This was well before and sex edu at school so I really still did not have a clue.

To cut it short I was soon in a childrens home

Now lets say gay fostering and adoption was permitted then legally, Gay fostering actually has gone on for some time but the gay is usually alone and has his/her sexuallity well hidden.

Today as an adult where I have the choice rather than be adopted by any gay family, a gas chamber sounds good, or the electric chair, life on the streets, (somewhere i have also been), back to a home or even borstal would be more appealing.

So how do you feel knowing that in the future some children with no choice may be forced into a gay adoption scheme and when he/she reached adult hood feels as I would now if had been done to me. I would rather have my mother and father together 5 fold of each of them with 5 fold of the violence than have been put in the situation that is being suggested for spannish orphans, and I can only just bear to have either my mother or father visit me because neither of them will dare to ever cross me again, and if they both happen upon my house at the same time, well they do behave impecably, altho somewhat quiet with each other, I wonder why

I would not trust my father alone with my children and I really dont like my mother with them that often either. But I would put my kids in the trust of either of my parents than ever wish upon them to get adopted by any gay family.

So you politically correct do gooders enjoy what you may be supporting as a campaign in the future, you will most likely be causing as much serious misery as any good that could come of it

Well then the question has to be, where does this hatred of gays come from? Are you just biggoted against them or is there actually a reason to dislike them?
And gay fostering has gone on for some time you are correct, but sexuality isnt so much kept a secret, its just something not relevant to the adoption process and certainly something you dont discuss with the child.
The part Gays are campaigning for is the right to adopt as a couple, something wich for some reason isnt recognised outside of marriage. The reason for this is for times where a partner may die, the partner who dies may be the childs legal guardian and the other may want to maintain the role as parent, unfortunatley in the eyes of the law the living partner would have no more right to than you or I and as such long legal battles are normally faught for custody of a child wich should legally be thiers.