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Originally Posted by orangebird

Maybe that's where the argument really lies then.

I believe it's in genetic make up. You fancy someone - a reaction of hormones - a physical chemical reaction within the makeup of your body determines (in this respect) what gender you do or don't find attractive. You can't (or indeed couldn't until recently) dictate having a boy or girl, or what colour eyes the baby will have. I beleive the same of someones sexuality. You're born into it.

Then again not everyone believes that and neither should they be derided for doing so. I donââ‚Âà ‚¬ÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â‚¬Å¾Ã‚¢t agree with the genetics deciding your sexuality as you say †“ itââ‚ ¬ÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â‚¬Å¾Ã‚¢s not cut and dried. There are heterosexual people who may find someone of the same sex attractive but do not feel enough to act on it.