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Originally posted by Ramrod
but Kink, men only approach women that they fancy. After that comes the intellectual attraction. The initial attraction has a lot to do with sex.
I believe it's often the opposit case with women.....at least according to my wife.
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Yes, Ramrod
What i'm saying is that if a man
only wants to sleep with me.. never to be seen again after that moment .... i'd like to know in advance so that i can agree to it or not. I was only replying to the situation where a
screw was to be the only outcome.. it wasn't a part of the
getting to know you process. I was referring to being lied to by someone just to have sex.... no more, no less..... never to be heard of again.... a telephone number that doesn't exist given at the end of the night.... that sort of thing
I'm not naive, if anything i'm jaded. And women are not so different to men... well not any more. In looking for a possible partner then of course personality and intelligence is part of the attraction.... but i'm 36, single... and sometimes sexual physical attraction is all that's needed
Having said that.... the physical attraction is affected..... for me.... by the personality of the man, even on first meeting. If he has an inane laugh which resembles a hyena... then i think the idea of an early night is not on
Maybe that's where the difference it... maybe you're saying that men, generally of course, would not be so bothered by that for a quickie.
Start another thread... and we can discuss it
May have been too honest there.... lol but just so you know, that was NOT a personal advert