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Originally Posted by Seti
How on earth can anyone place a judgement on the head of this woman ? Ok her act may have been terrible and awful for the somewhat bemused father. But there are millions of women desperate for children who use turkey basters and all sorts of other methods to conceive.
I want children. I may not stoop to that level but try being a woman when your clock is ticking fast and see how you cope.
Sian
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I'll re-iterate that despite the bad wording of that article, the method of fertilisation is under debate. If she did do what the article said, then:
She could have gone to a sperm bank. She was doctor so she should have known about them, and her considerable wage should be able to cover the charge. She could have adopted. There are so many kids given a near-life sentence in homes because there aren't enough suitable parents to adopt them. She could have gone into fostering, too. She could have joined the Big Brothers/Big Sisters Of America. She could have brought some real happiness to deserving kids, had she have been a reasonable person.
There was no excuse for her to ruin someone elses life because she wanted a baby. God knows what the kid is going to be like with her for a mother.