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Originally Posted by Jaymoss
Confidence knocked bad. Been chatting to a lass on Facebook dating and Whatsapp. Getting on well chatting for ages arranged a meet then suddenly blocked and ghosted. No reason why. Shiz like this really sets me back`. The weight I am at now is where I was the last time I was in a serious relationship and although it was not the break up from that led me to my breakdown and weight gain it was a contributing factor.
How I feel now proves I am still vulnerable to this which makes me not want to try but I also do not want to be alone anymore. I do not know what to do
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I agree wholeheartedly with the comments already made by the guys. From my perspective it's definitely her loss.
Jay you are a great guy, you always have been as long as I have known you. Don't let this get to you. You have worked so hard and you look great, it's her loss and even if you never find out why she bottled meeting you in real life it shows how lucky you were not to invest any more time on her.
Take a break from the search and just enjoy the new freedom. The more you socialise the more confidence you will gain and who knows, maybe the lady you are looking for is just waiting around the corner.
xx Jo