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Originally Posted by Jaymoss
Confidence knocked bad. Been chatting to a lass on Facebook dating and Whatsapp. Getting on well chatting for ages arranged a meet then suddenly blocked and ghosted. No reason why. Shiz like this really sets me back`. The weight I am at now is where I was the last time I was in a serious relationship and although it was not the break up from that led me to my breakdown and weight gain it was a contributing factor.
How I feel now proves I am still vulnerable to this which makes me not want to try but I also do not want to be alone anymore. I do not know what to do
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Sorry to hear that. Sounds like something wasn't right on her part. It's just natural progression to want to meet after chatting for so long.
See it as her loss but don't let it get to you. Just keep doing what you're doing as that is building your confidence within yourself. From what I've read so far you've done brilliantly so keep building on that. Yeah it's a set back and you might go through many more till you find the one. Just never give up.
I mean I have a face that looks like a smacked arse, but been married twice, and constantly told I've punched well above my weight (I can accept that's a put down / negative remark on my side). But I don't care what I look like as I can't change that fact but I can accept that it's my personality and confidence is what that counted far more than my looks. It's how you carry yourself.