Jackjone I think what techguy was referring to is the way you come across it can be a little condescending and that alienates people that might agree with the points you've made. Like it or not internet forums don't translate intent or emotional feelings unless very well worded so at times people can come across as something they are not. Also in my experience telling people to calm down generally has the opposite effect, just for notice I am perfectly calm as I type this
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