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Thanks nash it is very difficult to explain especially when the wee one was laughing and joking with his Grandad just last Sunday. His Aunt (hubby's sister) keeps making unnecessary nasty comments towards myself which has not went unnoticed with the family and my boy's but now is not the time to say anything as she is also grieving for the loss of her father. I would have thought that she would have had more respect in regards to the situation but no still her usual stuff spouting out her mouth which added more distress to both myself and my children and I decided to do my usual and ignore her which I think is the best option but maybe next month it will be needed to say something as her comments are hurtful to my boy's. I will just need to wait and see if she continues to upset them then that's a no no in my book do and say what you want to me but please don't upset my children, but right now my focus is on my hubby and children and making sure my Mother in Law is supported at this sad time, 59 years they were married it's a long time but no time is good to lose your partner whatever your age or time spent together.