[joglynne]

Sometimes you just have to let people live with the consequences of their actions.

If she is vulnerable and needs a phone line for emergency contacts then I believe there are ways of protecting a phone line but as far as anything else, ie internet or TV then she is the only one who can decide what she wants. TV can be free and access to the internet is not a necessity.

Maybe VM cutting her off is what your Aunt needs to make her reassess her priorities.