[toady]

For remote control I'd say there are several options :-

Use your normal internet connection and then back to the TIVo via its built in internet connection although the lag will be horrendous

VM supply a wireless dongle perhaps at extra cost (like Sky does for Anytime+)

VM recommend a home plug solution

VM just say plug it into your router via a cable

Sky don't appear to have any problems in suggesting to their customers to plug the Sky box into the router to get Sky Anytime+ (they have been running TV ads telling their customers to do this) so I can't see any problem with VM doing the same