Whilst I agree that Spurs possibly 'deserved' something from the game, the fact that Ferdinand quite clearly played the ball and that Adeybayor who I assume you mean by 'Abi', jumped up straight away and tried to get the ball tells me that he knew it wasn't a penalty either.
Perhaps the Gods saw that dreadful dive from Bale last week that I don't think you have passed comment on, and decided to punish Spurs.
Jim.