I can't believe that this question has been seriously asked
Whether you stretch it or VM stretches it it's still being stretched and will never be a true 16:9 format..
Just turn off WSS on your TV and set everything to 16:9
Personally though I'd rather not see Judith Sheindlin's face any more stretched.. I don't think my heart could take it..
Oh on a simple note you could ask VM to take some 16:9 cameras back in time and ask them to film every single 4:3 show with them.. or is that as ridiculous as this request???