I am so nicely suprised to find out that elderly, good friends of my parents are still around and lucid and I will be able to say Hi to them soon (it's one of those Auntie-and-Uncle-so-and-so when they are no blood relation whatsoever but all good stuff). So I've pre-warned them and will be taking flowers, country house cake and a big cheeky grin and hugs and a good listening ear