I am all for giving your child a slap when all else has failed but never in temper and always controlled
This guy appears to have lost control and lashed out never right in any situation
I have not had to slap Bethia for many years because I am lucky so far as she listens to reason(oh and I have a frightening bellow lol)
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Originally Posted by vanman
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Parents are not always able to control their kids. Sometimes and through no fault of their own the child can rebel. What do you do when you tell your kid no and he/she continues to do it anyway? What do you do when you ground the child and he/she refuses to stay in? you lock the door they climb out of the window you tie them up you get arrested.
Society has just as much to blame as the parents. There is no deterant.
When I was 16 I commited a crime got caught and got 12 hours Attendance Centre. The place was hell the guards( or whatever you want to call them) were evil and for me it was a deterant ( I managed to not get caught again lol) I was a orrible kid off the rails glue sniffing commiting crime. Both my Mum and my Dad kicked 10 shades out of me regularly and it never stopped me.
The deterant needs to be in society. Tougher sentances something the kid will hate ( community serivce but hard work perhaps) as things are kids just get away with it