[Peter_]

Originally Posted by AdamD

We don't have many options unfortunatly, as we're all on the same contract/mortgage.

The only options that Citizens advice were able to offer, were...

1) Sell the house, before it's to late
2) See #1

They didn't seem to be able to offer much in the way of options, but they did sympathise with our plight, but as we already knew, we took the risk when he moved in with us.

Today we had a confrontation, as the mortgage company informed me they'd sent us three letters for each month there was a late payment, we only got one.

We also requested statements, twice, which were sent by registered/signed for post, neither showed up.

Why? Because my uncle is the one who rushes to the door when the mail arrives, we suspect he's been taking the mail and has been since September.

I have found 2 options that may help with your mail issue which would ensure you see the mail that matters.

The first is Mail Collect.

Mail Collect is a free service that lets you collect mail from your local Delivery Office at a time that suits your needs. We hold your mail securely at our Delivery Office and it can only be collected by authorised people with ID.

The second is a PO BOX

Have you thought about setting up a PO BOX with the Post Office which costs from £60 for six months.