the first one yes local groups of elders will get things wrong but hopefully they would get sorted at some point by one of the traveling overseers
as to one parent yep they to get it wrong but out of my peer group most went on to university or apprenticeships a few went straight to pioneering though they too have since gained other qualifications before marrying
you have all sorts in the organization not all follow the rules as well as others and some plainly get it wrong all are fallible
i am happy to use the word will in stead i dont think it changes my post away from what i was trying to say ( though i may
have to re read it )