Come and join the CarerWatch discussion group. We are all unpaid family carers and everyone is welcome.
http://carerwatch.com/
and then click on the discussion group
The NAS are running a pilot study of new people with autism going on to ESA so there is more information about autism than most conditions. Come and join CW and we'll talk about it. I'll send you a message when you get there about how to get the information.
See you soon.